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pukeko is offline pukeko Post #31  August 13,2009, 5:43am
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has a long report due Thursday and still not even .5 there. **headache**

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i agree i wish there are more people like you.
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Once again, I seem to almost totally agree with you (so much easier to let you type)... my variation is that for me (call me old fashioned) exclusivity starts at the first kiss.
 
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[quote=D_Lion;706534]Yes, I do. A first date is a display of money, where a man buys a woman an expensive evening to show, 1: that he has a significant job; 2: that he gives money to women.
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yeah so much about tradition. hmm...men also think it's okay to sex with more than women, eh. perhaps women should do this too, eh.

ummm they do.

To answer the OP, if a prospect was casually dating others without boinking them I'd have no problem. If we were bumpin fuzzies or getting close then no, it would have to be exclusive.

I don't date anyone in a relationship or having recently broken up, separated, recently divorced. That is just begging for drama and failure and not a good way to develop a healthy long term relationship. My opinion.
 
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would you date someone who is such a dud that no one else is interested in dating them?
 
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definitely. without a doubt if everything else fits. i wouldn't have to worry about another girl snatching him away from me.
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