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i agree i wish there are more people like you.
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Once again, I seem to almost totally agree with you (so much easier to let you type)... my variation is that for me (call me old fashioned) exclusivity starts at the first kiss.
- August 13th, 2009, 06:43 am
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D_Lion wrote :
Yes, I do. A first date is a display of money, where a man buys a woman an expensive evening to show, 1: that he has a significant job; 2: that he gives money to women.

This is why, in the absence of the “traditional” date scenario, women offer contemporaneous comments like, “my last boyfriend spent $400 for dinner.”
I spent $17 on my last m&g. She picked up the tip.

I do see what D is talking about.
- August 13th, 2009, 07:20 am
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pukeko wrote :
yeah so much about tradition. hmm...men also think it's okay to sex with more than women, eh. perhaps women should do this too, eh.

ummm they do.

To answer the OP, if a prospect was casually dating others without boinking them I'd have no problem. If we were bumpin fuzzies or getting close then no, it would have to be exclusive.

I don't date anyone in a relationship or having recently broken up, separated, recently divorced. That is just begging for drama and failure and not a good way to develop a healthy long term relationship. My opinion.
- August 13th, 2009, 07:35 am
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would you date someone who is such a dud that no one else is interested in dating them?
- August 13th, 2009, 07:58 am
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definitely. without a doubt if everything else fits. i wouldn't have to worry about another girl snatching him away from me.
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would you date someone who is such a dud that no one else is interested in dating them?
- August 13th, 2009, 08:16 am
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