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Attractive but doesn't act like it, modest and/or humble.
- August 10th, 2009, 08:33 am
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Attractive but doesn't act like it, modest and/or humble.
Let me know when you find her.
- August 10th, 2009, 08:37 am
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simplemind wrote :
What are your dealmakers?

What are the things that make you want to come closer, get a little vulnerable with this person, stick it out with them?

Just asking you to put one down. If you have more than one, I think it'd be good if you could post them separately. That way, we can think about what you said and not just skim down your list.

While this might be structured like a game, it isn't one at all.

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For example, one of mine is:

Is kind to people that he doesn't "have" to be kind to.
Dealmaker =

1. God-fearing (Main Entry: God–fear·ing Function: adjective Date: 1835 : having a reverent feeling toward God : devout),
2. hard-working
3. strong-charectered
4. antonym of mean-spirited
5. good-willed

I wish all threaders well.
- August 10th, 2009, 11:13 am
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simplemind wrote :
He can lick his eyebrows???
How about parting his hair?


She has a nice, genuine smile and shares it often.
- August 10th, 2009, 11:37 am
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(thumpity-thump...did you say "part his hair"?
Oh.
My.)

He can be silly and not be self-conscious about it.
- August 10th, 2009, 07:54 pm
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simplemind wrote :
He can be silly and not be self-conscious about it.

Why is everybody looking at me?
- August 10th, 2009, 08:04 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Why is everybody looking at me?
Napoleon?
- August 10th, 2009, 08:13 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Why is everybody looking at me?
Gee, D, I dunno. And don't let anyone tell you you're being silly. Ever.

He makes me smile just by being himself.
- August 10th, 2009, 08:13 pm
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simplemind wrote :
What are your dealmakers?

What are the things that make you want to come closer, get a little vulnerable with this person, stick it out with them?

Just asking you to put one down. If you have more than one, I think it'd be good if you could post them separately. That way, we can think about what you said and not just skim down your list.

While this might be structured like a game, it isn't one at all.

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For example, one of mine is:

Is kind to people that he doesn't "have" to be kind to.

1) Intelligent
2) Independent
3) Spontaneous
- August 10th, 2009, 08:18 pm
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simplemind wrote :
He makes me smile just by being himself.
I think you are my twin separated at birth ... all of your dealmakers seem to be mine too
- August 10th, 2009, 08:35 pm
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