Women need Men- Now Men need Women..what changed?


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Ladyjuju is offline Ladyjuju Post #1  August 6,2009, 1:17pm
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It is very interesting to look back and think when I was younger and as a woman, we somehow thought we needed a man to make us complete, and now the reverse has happened! As men age, they seem to need to have a women in their lives to make them complete, an absolute need and requirement! Where women are quite content to be Ok in their own skin, alone! What's up with that?
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Who said that a man needed a woman to feel complete? I'm more secure of myself then that.
 
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Ladyjuju is offline Ladyjuju Post #4  August 6,2009, 2:06pm
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Who said that a man needed a woman to feel complete? I'm more secure of myself then that.

Haha! if you were you would not hide behind some stupid skeleton screen! Why not show everyone who you are?
 
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Some people feel better doing their own thing. They may be set in their ways & may not wish to compromise on a lot of things. This happens a lot after people have grown children.

They don't want to deal with another person's needs on a regular basis.

They can CHOOSE when they wish to accomodate someone & when they don't want to.

Others of both sexes want to be deep into the lives of another person & wish to make those compromises. They see value in that. When you are in a deeper relationship you have to deal with things at someone else's pace sometimes.

Thankfully, women do not need men to get what they need & want. I would say that it has everything to do with opportunity & the limited stigma placed on divorce. Those 2 things are quite beautiful improvements in our society.
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
It is very interesting to look back and think when I was younger and as a woman, we somehow thought we needed a man to make us complete, and now the reverse has happened! As men age, they seem to need to have a women in their lives to make them complete, an absolute need and requirement! Where women are quite content to be Ok in their own skin, alone! What's up with that?
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #7  August 6,2009, 2:52pm
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Ladyjuju wrote :
As men age, they seem to need to have a women in their lives to make them complete, an absolute need and requirement!
That's easy. You.........complete..........me.

Ladyjuju wrote :
Where women are quite content to be Ok in their own skin...
Great....we'll meet you there.
 
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #8  August 6,2009, 4:21pm
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Ladyjuju wrote :
Haha! if you were you would not hide behind some stupid skeleton screen! Why not show everyone who you are?
Whoa, lose the hostility on the profile pictures, wouldya.
 
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j0hn8andy is offline j0hn8andy Post #9  August 6,2009, 5:00pm
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[quote=Ladyjuju;701499]
Haha! if you were you would not hide behind some stupid skeleton screen! Why not show everyone who you are?

[quote=Mr_Right;701633]
Whoa, lose the hostility on the profile pictures, wouldya.




Lady, I've noticed the hostility in this and other threads you've created. Are you deliberately trying to insult the people who post in your threads, as some sort of provocateur? I don't get why you would want to do that. I really enjoyed the Clothes and Hangers thing last night. I think other people did as well. But what I've seen here today doesn't show you off very well, I'm sorry to say.

And my avatar is very special to me, as I've explained to some of my Friends. So go ahead and insult it (and me) if you must. I have posted in your thread, after all!
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
Haha! if you were you would not hide behind some stupid skeleton screen! Why not show everyone who you are?
What I look like is none of your concern and would not make a difference in my opinions anyway.

On the other hand, why are you insulting and hostile on these boards?
 
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