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Alright I am very confused here, I somewhat think I am rejected as in no relationship but I think she just wants to be friends... Or is it? Anyway here it goes --

I met this girl about a month ago and things seemed awesome. I think in the first week we hung out three times. during these dates we went to the park, played with each others dogs, went to the movies, got ice cream, mini golf and all that. We talk to each other all the time to, usually text each other at least 10 times a day (she is the one usually to start it off, sometimes me) and we try to plan at least two things a week. Well last Friday I asked something along the lines we should go on a dinner "date". She seemed cool about it and just sent back a sure. But then about ten minutes later she sent back a "I really want to but you mean just as friends, right?". I don't know what to think about that.

We flirt all the time, fool around (not sexually but like put arms around each other / poke / shove). Its all hard to explain what went on though during our dates. From what I know about dating and what I have read on here (more in person though) the signs seem to be there. She looks at me kind of staring into my eyes and then when I make contact with hers she will look away. I catch her just smiling for a long time when I make a joke or just randomly. When / if I ask her about it she usually blushes or does something that I think means she likes it. I havent tried to hold her hand (usually a good sign if she is interested she will accept) but should I even bother? I felt with her reaction about the "date" thing I may have scared her. She is still trying to make plans with me though so I don't think I scared her too much. Anyway what do you guys think? Should I just be friends with her? Keep on flirting? Let it die down and see if she tries to pick it back up? She is a really cool person and whatnot I just dont know. I have met her friends and she has met mine, she acts more of a friend towards hers and mine. She isn't touchy feely at all with her male friends (or mine) and she has no problem making eye contact with all of them (without looking away).
 
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