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SierraMountainAir is offline SierraMountainAir Post #1  July 27,2009, 11:17pm
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There's a totally hot blonde woman about 5-6 years younger than me who lives in a house just on the next block from me, in this gated community.

I would have loved to meet her, but don't know her name or a way to meet her. Though I had been wondering, for maybe a couple of years, how to approach her? She has a gorgeous garden of blooming flowers and I would love to get some cuttings.

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Imagine my surprise, therefore, yesterday when the house cleaners I use, came in, and said, "HEY you that neighbor of yours, Sharyn, we just finished her house, and when we were unloading our truck in your driveway, she came by in that red Jeep Cherokee she has, and stopped.


She told us, "I really want to meet that guy who lives there, all I have ever been able to do is wave to him when he drives by and waves to me".


All I know is that, from what they told me, she is unmarried and lives down the street from me alone in that house, legitimately single, no children or anyone else in there, and apparently, is available, and has checked ME out..

I saw her Jeep outside the exercise gym in our community club house here, on some mornings,but I don't know more about her or what she does.


So how do I get to meet her? Any ideas? Sounds like we are both ready to do it right now.


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Ludiusvox is offline Ludiusvox Post #2  July 27,2009, 11:19pm
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Do something lame like check out when she goes and gets her mail...and make sure you check your mail about the same time; say hi and see what she does then you'll know.
 
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meri75 is offline meri75 Post #3  July 27,2009, 11:27pm
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The cuttings ... you've said you'd like some of her cuttings from her garden. Have you noticed when she is in her garden? Go for a walk past her place and compliment the garden and ask would it be okay if you took some cuttings home one day? The gardeners I know positively cannot WAIT to give me cuttings of their plants!
 
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winn is offline winn Post #4  July 27,2009, 11:37pm

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You, of all people, should not have trouble with this.
You've got at least two options. 1) If you see her Jeep outside the exercise gym, go in and introduce yourself.
2) If you see her in the garden, go up to her and start talking about the garden and your desire for her cuttings....err

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Keep some workout clothes in a gymbag in your car, and when you see her Jeep outside the clubhouse, take the gymbag in and look around for her. If you always see her car there around the same time, she's probably working out.

You can go up to her and say, "Hey, don't you live near me? You have that nice garden don't you? Maybe I can stop by and check you out -- I mean check out your garden?"
 
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I'm sure you are going to get some interesting ideas here... But I wouldn't use any of them, if I were you . Instead, think of an interesting way that feels right for you, her and your situation.

But I'll also give you a word of warning - act before that light switches from Green to Yellow or even Red

Don't risk it! is all I have to say on this matter.
 
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[quote=6dle899;689220]There's a totally hot blonde woman about 5-6 years younger than me who lives in a house just on the next block from me, in this gated community.

I would have loved to meet her, but don't know her name or a way to meet her. Though I had been wondering, for maybe a couple of years, how to approach her? She has a gorgeous garden of blooming flowers and I would love to get some cuttings.

I saw her Jeep outside the exercise gym in our community club house here, on some mornings,but I don't know more about her or what she does.









You're kidding, right? About not being able to meet a neighbor very near to you? What's this world coming to!

Ask her for those cuttings! It's a guarantee she will be flattered. Or approach her in the gym. But do the lady a favor and do it when she's not all sweaty!
 
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I don't think I would approach her at the gym if she's really into fitness and is doing a program all sweaty and out of breath. The asking for cuttings is a great idea. You can invite her for a cup of coffee or a drink as a thank you.
 
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Have you thought about just knocking on her door?

Sorry, i know that's abrupt but do you really want to be playing games in this? She's interested in you, you're interested in her, that's rare enough, don't risk it with contrived scenarios for meeting her?

Just go over and compliment her on her garden, ask for some cuttings and keep talking.
 
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meri75 wrote :
The cuttings ... you've said you'd like some of her cuttings from her garden. Have you noticed when she is in her garden? Go for a walk past her place and compliment the garden and ask would it be okay if you took some cuttings home one day? The gardeners I know positively cannot WAIT to give me cuttings of their plants!
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