Black women in Britain who like white men.


View Poll Results: How many black women in Britain love white men
White men treat Black women better than Black men 0 0%
White or black they are all the same 0 0%
I would never date a black man 1 100.00%
I would never date a White man 1 100.00%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 1. You may not vote on this poll

Reply
 
Topic Tools Search this Thread
nonibunsuk is offline nonibunsuk Post #1  July 27,2009, 11:05pm
nonibunsuk's Avatar

Joined: Jul 2009

Posts: 3

See profile

Hi Im a black woman in Britain who loves White men. I dont know but I havent been able to land one that I would say was worth the stress. I know there are good ones out there who are not just looking to experiment, but they want more. Please if anyone has any advice on finding a good white guy who likes BB black women please send me a reply.
 
  Reply With Quote
gothustartus is offline gothustartus Post #2  July 28,2009, 9:08am
gothustartus's Avatar

is thinking about someone special

Veteran

Joined: Jul 2009

London, England

Posts: 1,753

See profile

There are plenty of white guys out there who like black women, sorry to hear that you've just met the problem ones. I'm not too sure what you mean by "They want more" though, more what? Commitment? Excitement? Cleavage?

There are good and bad eggs in every group, and as with anything worth having, sometimes you have to throw away a lot of bad eggs before you find it.
 
  Reply With Quote
waltercl is offline waltercl Post #3  July 28,2009, 9:39pm
waltercl's Avatar

is Feeling good about life ............................

Veteran

Joined: Nov 2008

The South

Posts: 1,711

See profile

One of the reasons you may not be getting a lot of responses is because these kinds of threads have had a tendency to turn ugly. People who prefer to date within their own ethnicity are hesitant to respond because they fear being labeled as racist, and you'll get some guys who'll say "sure I'd have no problem dating a black woman if ........." when in reality what they really mean is they'd do it if she looked like Halle Barry.

So the problem is getting really honest answers to a question like this.

Also another factor might be that your subject line is about Britain, and I'm guessing the overwhelming majority of posters are from the U.S.

I do not know a lot about British culture, so I can only give you somewhat of an American perspective. Also keep in mind that I'm from the southern U.S., and someone who lives in a more cosmopolitan area such as New York, Chicago, or L.A., may have a different take.

From my observation it seems white women are more open to dating black men than white men are willing to date black women. On another thread you mentioned that from your observation the white men who were willing to date black women wanted ones that were smaller and more light skinned. This would seem consistent with the fact that white men would gravitate toward a black woman who was closer in looks to their own ethnicity.

I'm not going to question your reasons for only wanting to go out with white men because I believe everyone is entitled to their preferences. I do think though you are strongly limiting your choices, as I'm sure there would be many black men who would also fit most of the ideals you are wanting.
Last edited by waltercl; July 28,2009 at 9:50pm.
 
  Reply With Quote
lil_lamb is offline lil_lamb Post #4  July 29,2009, 7:31am
lil_lamb's Avatar

Veteran

Joined: Dec 2008

california

Posts: 1,364

See profile

what kind of stress? are we talking about finicky ways?
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply


Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
What's up with our men??? Maasai 4 us Black Women/Men ISO 42 April 11,2012 3:44pm
Do men really like full figured women? DIVINE_DESIGNS7 About You 437 January 15,2012 3:28pm
Do guys prefer open & agressive characteristics in women? Pris Ask a Dating Expert 41 September 15,2011 1:22pm
Is There Something Dating Articles Aren't Telling Women? outlaw1 A Man's Point of view 22 August 12,2009 8:04am
interacial relationships white women and black men mustanged Relationships 1 June 1,2009 12:41pm

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“Wow Legend, you have been through a lot! OP, about 2 months ago, I went gluten-free and dairy-free with the exception of an occasional greek yogurt with fruit a few times a week. My main reason why ... ” –  legend29

Join the “Living Without....” discussion

“ I did not discourage the OP from meeting him....just wanted her to also be sure to be safe and not throw caution to the wind. I hope she has a great time and posts to the board how successful her ... ” –  legend29

Join the “a match wants to meet me in a foreign country” discussion

“The perpetrator at my work has slowed their controlling ways a bit. But, I think the damage is done for some and she will never be anything but an annoyance to them. She's much quieter, though seems ... ” –  legend29

Join the “Who's the Boss?” discussion

“Oh, I forgot to give an example from my family of origin. Both my grandpa and my father had their own successful businesses. We lived together in a 4 floor building occupying different flats but we ... ” –  elliechris

Join the “When is friendship a problem” discussion

“Most anyone has been there I imagine. My advice is: don't over think it, it's all a numbers game (more for some than others), focus on your happiness/life, and work on your market value.” –  Raw_Truth

Join the “Very discouraged.” discussion

“ I figured it had something to do with that "hair gel" that Cameron Diaz was using in the movie "There's Something About Mary"...” –  Shelby

Join the “What kind of add you see on this board?” discussion

“I used to do this in my youth. A couple relevant factors likely were that I broke up with them, they would have liked to re-engage and I had poor boundaries--desperately wanting to stay friends. ... ” –  EccentricAmbiguity

Join the “Hold on, hold on, hold on!” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 3:59am.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0