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Adam1982 is offline Adam1982 Post #1  July 27,2009, 5:23pm
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Are there any cougars on this site? What do you all women think about dating a much younger guy? I know its more common the other way around, but i think a new trend might be emerging.
 
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Adam1982 wrote :
Are there any cougars on this site?

Unthinkable!

I'm shocked!
 
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D_Lion wrote :
Unthinkable!

I'm shocked!
You're just bummed that you are too old for a cougar.

I think I am a cougar in the making...the last time I was checking out guys - I realized that they were all about ten years younger than me. Once I realized what I was doing, I tried to check out the guys in my appropriate range - but that didn't last long.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
You're just bummed that you are too old for a cougar.

I'm only old enough to know better. I'm still too young to resist.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
You're just bummed that you are too old for a cougar.

I think I am a cougar in the making...the last time I was checking out guys - I realized that they were all about ten years younger than me. Once I realized what I was doing, I tried to check out the guys in my appropriate range - but that didn't last long.
Yes yes this happened to me also Lizzie.. 8 years younger guys.. oh.. nice! I do look at guys my own age too and much older, but summer is for the young and hot! (or the old yet conserved punks!)
 
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gggrrrrrrr oopppss I mean puuurrrrrr...
 
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Well... I have a strange curse, I guess, in that I do *not* at all appear my age. Most people guess 4 years less, and sometimes even 6 or 8!! Must be my insanely charming personality... Oh well...

Funny that this topic would crop up today, given that last night I met this guy at a meetup (dot com, great website by the way!) who turns out is at best 10, or even 11 years younger than me. I thought he was PERFECT for me... goes to show how skewed this cougar-in-the-making really is!!

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P.S.: All my boyfriends, and I do mean ALL my boyfriends have been younger than me... A few days or a few years... but ALL younger!
 
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Yes yes this happened to me also Lizzie.. 8 years younger guys.. oh.. nice! I do look at guys my own age too and much older, but summer is for the young and hot! (or the old yet conserved punks!)
I know - it was weird. I was people watching and I realized that I was checking out guys. Then I realized that all the men I was checking out where my junior. Ooops! But I think that just means I picture myself younger than I really am!!!

But Lav, and no offense meant to men out there, but Lav - sometimes - don't you think your matches are old?? lol! I mean from their profile - they just seem old even if their physical age is appropriate. Or is that just me? Probably applies to both genders I guess - especially, since I still think I am young and I have the pictures to prove it! Ha! Ha!
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P.S.: All my boyfriends, and I do mean ALL my boyfriends have been younger than me... A few days or a few years... but ALL younger!
Interesting...I think everyone I dated was older than me. There were a few the same age but that was later rather than sooner in my dating experience. Interesting...

I had one eH match that was a couple years my junior. Turned out - he felt like my younger brother more than anything. But I did finally find out who the Hills people are and where they came from. (or is it Hillz?? - whatever!)
 
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[QUOTE=LizziePooh;688908] sometimes - don't you think your matches are old?? lol! I mean from their profile - they just seem old even if their physical age is appropriate. Or is that just me?


Am running into quite a bit of this lately!
 
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