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pukeko is offline pukeko Post #1  July 18,2009, 3:03pm
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has a long report due Thursday and still not even .5 there. **headache**

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i told you that he would come back. and he did. they always do, and then ha ha...too late. if you recalled my last ranting about a nice guy who left a ball in my court, and when i contacted him, especially because he had said so many nice things about me, i thought he liked me, he replied and i responded and then he poofed!

now 7 months later, i have been noticing that he has been stalking my profile, robbing, who knows what kind of cyber information he has rapped. i am not going to reward that. i refuse to acknowledge that he has been harassing my profile. ***flip the hair*** i thought he was a really nice guy, even has a big heart and brain for me to boot too.

it appears that we share a friend who confronted him a few weeks ago on my behalf why he did not contact me after the first meeting. he told her that he was not sure if i was interested in him. (oh my god, what does one do to show interest?...take off my bras..phish!

ok...pukeko, be strong, ignore, don't acknowledge, move on. he's really not into you, especially after 7 months? ha... ha...even a job application has a deadline.
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You could pick up where you left off?

As if without a pause is my preferred way.
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #3  July 18,2009, 3:09pm
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pukeko wrote :

he told her that he was not sure if i was interested in him.
I "can't stand" liars! That is such a bs response. No, he is not interested and doesnt want to look like the bad guy so he, what? PUTS IT ON YOU. What a creep. Next!!
 
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legend29 is offline legend29 Post #4  July 18,2009, 3:41pm
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Please...keep your bra on...this is a Christian dating site!

On a serious note...7 months?????..oh puhleeze....leave him alone...he poofed once...he will poof again.

Once a poofer always a poofer. The woman he was dating probably bailed on him and now he wants you back because he thinks he had you 'in the bag' ....move on... keep swishing the hair back....and sashay the hips too a bit .. and say to him in a resounding voice.."To the left...To the left...."

Leave this loser alone!
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Ah pukeko! I remember you posting about that guy and how we all told you you should contact him and at least let him know you were interested... and you DID! He's the one who is being the loser, and it is his loss. Unless you really really liked him (and not just because he was hard to get), I would move on!
 
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pukeko wrote :
i told you that he would come back. and he did. they always do, and then ha ha...too late. if you recalled my last ranting about a nice guy who left a ball in my court, and when i contacted him, especially because he had said so many nice things about me, i thought he liked me, he replied and i responded and then he poofed!

now 7 months later, i have been noticing that he has been stalking my profile, robbing, who knows what kind of cyber information he has rapped. i am not going to reward that. i refuse to acknowledge that he has been harassing my profile. ***flip the hair*** i thought he was a really nice guy, even has a big heart and brain for me to boot too.

it appears that we share a friend who confronted him a few weeks ago on my behalf why he did not contact me after the first meeting. he told her that he was not sure if i was interested in him. (oh my god, what does one do to show interest?...take off my bras..phish!

ok...pukeko, be strong, ignore, don't acknowledge, move on. he's really not into you, especially after 7 months? ha... ha...even a job application has a deadline.
Not sure if that is the way to show interest, but I would sit up and take notice
 
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You could pick up where you left off?

As if without a pause is my preferred way.
Does that ever work???
 
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Mangosteen wrote :
Ah pukeko! I remember you posting about that guy and how we all told you you should contact him and at least let him know you were interested... and you DID! He's the one who is being the loser, and it is his loss. Unless you really really liked him (and not just because he was hard to get), I would move on!
I would have to agree to that.

I would have to recommend that she move on as he has shown that she is at best second. I don't play second to anyone, pukeko shouldn't either.
 
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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #9  July 18,2009, 5:06pm
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D_Lion wrote :
You could pick up where you left off?

As if without a pause is my preferred way.
Takes a lot for the Moon to agree with the Amphibian. But I do this time.

We are all people, we all have fears and insecurities. None of us are perfect, even the most perfectly-appearing ones are as flawed as the rest of us.

But we are all human and we all deserve another chance. In fact, we owe it to ourselves to give and receive as many chances as possible, especially when both our gut and brain guide us to do so. And never give up hope, even when it "appears" inconceivable.

Brush it off one more time, and try the Frog's preferred way. Allow yourself to feel the pain and cry, but also allow yourself to feel the joy and laugh. It's a liberating process of self-discovery...

And do me a favor please, listen to Bryn Christopher's music in the process, from start to end, no interruptions with posting for a little while, and please include the bonus track. And really listen to the lyrics all the way from start to end. And you'll realize that the end is only a new beginning.

You are not alone in your fears - we all feel exactly the same fears and pains, in various "drags" and in various locations, ages, genders, shapes and sizes. We are all the same and we need each other - no volunteer charity work involved. We all need to be really selfless in order to be really selfish, and vice versa .

Pause the music for a minute, re-read the paragraph just above - Get it!!! Then start the music again - put the My Word in the background this time, and post like crazy

Tell me how it goes. And Good Luck! we can never have enough of this particular Lady in our lives, regardless of gender
 
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yeoww is offline yeoww Post #10  July 18,2009, 5:14pm
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Keep tossing that hair and walk on by! If he disappeared once, chances are he'll poof! again. What's that saying: "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me"? I think you already know the best course of action for yourself.

I started a thread here recently about a guy with whom I'd been e-mailing and talking on the phone for awhile - a phone call every few days and an e-mail exchange at least once a day - and suddenly he just went silent for over a week. I e-mailed him once to ask if he was okay, heard nothing, and that was enough for me.

A few days after that he contacted me full of apologies to tell me he's so busy, his life is a mess, asked me not to give up on him...etc. etc. No, thanks. I never replied.
 
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