yeoww is offline yeoww Post #31  July 19,2009, 1:11pm
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I think adding her as a friend on Facebook with a note on the friend request reminding who you are isn't going too far. Maybe you could apologize for not giving her your email addy.

But that's as far as you should go. Any more communication unless she reciprocates is probably crossing the line.
I'd go with this option - if she doesn't respond then you have your answer.
 
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You didn't say how long you were in OC but if it was longer than a few exchanges that was a mistake. After a couple messages, it's time for regular e-mail if not phone numbers.
I agree with that.

If the match is still open, I guess it's OK to try Facebook, but not if she has closed it. I closed a match and made it clear I was not interested, then the person found me on Facebook and other sites and contacted me. I found that rather stalkerish since I had already turned her down. Also because I hadn't given her my last name, yet she still did enough searching to find me. Plus she did it under multiple identities, which took me a while to figure out it was her.

I think the bottom line is if they want to hear from you, contacting them is sweet, if they don't, it's stalkerish.
 
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