Do men perfer to do the chasing,or does it matter


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heartnsoul is offline heartnsoul Post #1  July 17,2009, 10:22am
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I heard a lot of subjects on this,got different points of view.Do you guys perfer to chase,or does it depend on the guy.It it alright for a woman to ask a guy out,i did this once in mjy lifetime i am 40.I dont see the problem with both ways.Any advice.
 
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'Chase' implies you are going in a different direction than I prefer. Therefore, you can keep going and I will divert my attention elsewhere.
 
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It really doesnt matter to me. Although it is nice for a woman to be forward some times. It tells me they know what they want and not willing to wait around for things to come to them.
 
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I think its better when the man makes the moves personally.
 
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I'm perfectly fine with letting the girl make some of the moves/do some of the chasing
 
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If a guy isn't pursuing you he probably isn't crazy about you. This is a bad thing.

Often times, the men that like to be pursued like the ego boost, but they will view you less and less as a potential mate, generally speaking.
 
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I disagree, I wouldn't look less on the girl because she was the one doing the pursuing, I'd actually be impressed that she had the courage to put herself out there, too many girls are afraid to come across as desperate, and I find that a silly reason.
 
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Nanette wrote :
If a guy isn't pursuing you he probably isn't crazy about you. This is a bad thing.

Often times, the men that like to be pursued like the ego boost, but they will view you less and less as a potential mate, generally speaking.
It works both ways. If she doesn't pursue me at all she must not like me very much. And often I won't chase too much because I don't want to be overeager and run her off. I think what it really is, is that men are either too clingy or disinterested (or at least that's what this board would lead me to believe.)
 
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If a woman isn't doing some of the chasing, then I view it as a negative. It puts them into a frame of being a passive, lazy lover. It also presupposes that they are on a pedestal and are high maintenance. It's like they have a sense of entitlement.

Doesn't chase imply that someone is running away from you...
 
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In terms of making a first move on someone, by all means go for it. As a guy, I may not even know that you are available or interested.
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