It is really difficult to tell. I think the fact that you strayed away from the physical stuff could have been a turn off for him if that is all he was looking for. Like it was already mentioned the Long Distance factor could have been a problem for him, I mean it is very possible that he is extremely into you but doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship (I personally do not consider 3 hours to be long distance but a lot of people do).

Bottom line, I wouldn't waste anymore of my time with him. If he was interested in would attempt to make contact and he would tell you so. If you think it would be possible to be just friends than that would be okay, but I find the problem with that is that usually when someone turns someone down it is hard to be friends with them afterwards. I know a chick that I met on OkCupid shortly after my ex and I broke up. While I probably shouldn't have been trying to data again so soon after I was. Anyhow, I met her and was instantly attracted to her. After about a week of talking to her she tells me that she isn't interested in dating anyone. Thought then shortly after that she met a guy. So it was obvious what she meant was that she wasn't interested in dating me. To make a long story short, we still communicate now and I like to think of her as a friend but still there is that thought sometimes when she talks about her guy problems that "well hey, you turned down the chance to be with a great guy".

Anyhow, I wish you all the best of luck. You will likely encounter the very thing you did now many more times in your life. My advice is not to sweat it. There are other guys out there who likely do want to be with you.