I have recently decided to publish a Lunatic's guide to Dating and Relationships.
Since we, the Lunatics, look up to all kinds of Earthly Creatures, I have been using my time here on eHA Earth to obeserve some common patterns of behavior of various species, in preparation for writing the book.
It has become clear that I neary made a serious mistake of not covering an important subject of handling Garbage within the relationship, so I decided to dedicate a whole chapter in my upcoming book to this important subject.
On behalf of myself and all the other Lunatics in desperate need of Dating and Relationship advice, I would humbly like to ask the kindest of Earthly Creatures to take only a few minutes of their time and participate in this moonground-breaking research project by voting in the poll.
And if you have a spare minute or two, I would also like to hear all your comments.
Here is the all important question:
If all is going well in your relationship, and you are contemplating cohabitation in the near future (with or without marriage), how would you prefer your partner to request you take out the garbage (once you've moved in together)?
Input from those currently cohabitating with their partner and dealing with Garbage Removal on a regular basis will be highly regarded.
If you are gender-neutral on your eHA profile, please also indicate your gender in your reply.
Reward for participation: A kiss from the Moon, unlimited supply of your favorite ice cream, and you may also take out the trash.
Thank you kindly. Your valuable time is greatly appreciated and will never be removed with any kind of Garbage.
Assuming a mutually-financed co-located domicile, and in the absence of negotiation to the contrary, either party should perform sundry chores as they become aware of the need.
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I sometimes tend to forget things, if I havent made a deposit to the trash recently. Thus I choose option number 3, because it has the normal pleasantries of asking please. With the end comment of hun to show a loving request.
I sometimes tend to forget things, if I havent made a deposit to the trash recently. Thus I choose option number 3, because it has the normal pleasantries of asking please. With the end comment of hun to show a loving request.
Ha! I knew the "shallow" kind would fall for that one!
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