What We Can Learn From Toxic Women

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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #11  July 1,2009, 6:36pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Admit it, Ladies like a guy with practical skills.
Very true. Screwing in light bulbs and mowing the lawn is particularly useful and practical, not to mention utterly titillating
 
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Why not just get the light bulb a self-help book?
 
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D_Lion wrote :
Why not just get the light bulb a self-help book?
Because I looove to watch!
 
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IcecreamMoon wrote :
Because I looove to watch!
Blatant voyeurism! ! Admit it, you just want to watch that light bulb have a brain-gasm, don't you? *grin*
 
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[COLOR=black][FONT=Arial]Who favors the short, fat halogen light bulbs, and who favors the tall, slender florescent light bulbs?
 
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Sometimes you have to wonder who writes these? 38 sentences was all they could come up with, the first half of which are fluff, and the rest are 3 really vague examples?

So, guys, all we need to do is avoid being trapped, negativity and selfish women. I feel so enlightened.
 
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'Snot just about diameter and extension… Though one must admit that helps as far as total lumens are concerned. *grin* One must not abused the socket with ham handed jamming. Gentle twisting motion finds the thread, followed by long screwing… ending with short, hard torque to seat it properly.

Now get yer minds out of the garter and back to the matter at hand! *grin* Toxic women… and men come in many forms. It seems to come back to manipulation, doesn’t it? Using whatever means at hand to achieve some self centered narcissistic end. A healthy relationship considers the needs and desires of both partners equally- doesn’t work as well any other way. There are uncountable ways for a relationship to go ineffably, horribly bad. But on the if and when, we try and learn the right lessons from them rather than taking on "baggage" in the form of hurt feelings, which fuel distrust and paranoia towards the opposite sex.

We could post story after story about our abominable experiences with the exes. While they can be funny, some are just sad. Regardless of how we look at them though, all of them form a large part of how we view relationships today. I think the article is focused on the *learning* perspective- take a look at how your past relationships have affected your outlook on the opposite sex. Honestly, are you taking something positive away from these experiences? Or are they a burden you carry with you that drags down your hope and positive outlook? Just some random thoughts... *grin*
 
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If she looks like this, who cares?
I tend to prefer fair complected women.

Green is out.
 
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[quote=D_Lion;659650][COLOR=black][FONT=Arial]Who favors the short, fat halogen light bulbs, and who favors the tall, slender florescent light bulbs?
 
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Wootz wrote :
Blatant voyeurism! ! Admit it, you just want to watch that light bulb have a brain-gasm, don't you? *grin*
I think I'm a corrupting influence on you, Wootz. Not only are you beginning to think like me (dangerous, you should only see the mess in my mind), you almost sound like me

And I wouldn't even dream of insulting your amazing intelligence by denying the fact. Voyerurism, a lot of brain and a lot of gasm, and I'm definitely in!
 
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