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mariachris is offline mariachris Post #1  June 17,2009, 4:30pm
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hey guys.
for about 3- 4 weeks i've been speaking to a guy i met on match. we've spoken + texted multiple times everyday from a few mins to hours. We met for the 1st time on Sat there and spent about 10 hours hanging out and doing stuff (shared a pretty passionate kiss). I had a really great time and asked if if he enjoyed himself..which he said he did.
Since then even tho we have both been pretty busy this week so far we still text and phone everyday, but not sure if he's backing away a abit. We havn't set up a second date which is where i'm slightly confused. If he liked me as much as he seemed with the calls/texts then why no second date as yet??
not sure if he's dating/ talking to others (probably best to assume he is!) so how can i ask if he is or if he is interested in me. If not then i would prefer to cut my losses and meet someone who feels the same
 
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churumbeque is offline churumbeque Post #2  June 17,2009, 4:38pm
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why not just ask when he will have time to get together again and see his responce. If he doesn't seem to want to make time then move on. If he is busy and says he would like to get together the next week then wait and see if it pans out. If he wasn't interested he wouldn't keep contact but more than likely he is dating others
 
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In my opinion you should not ask someone how they think of you – this just sounds lame and weak.
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[quote=D_Lion;645667]In my opinion you should not ask someone how they think of you – this just sounds lame and weak.
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