crazydaisy is offline crazydaisy Post #1  June 17,2009, 1:36pm
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OK. So I've been talking to this guy for about a month and a half . When we first started talking I flirted with him all the time via text and we hung out every night. Then he moved away for work for the next two months and he's been saying I'M acting weird because I call him once or twice a day, and I text him more. But I think I'm being less flirty now than I was before. But he insists that I'm weird and its getting on his nerves, that I'm "acting like we've been dating for years" What am I doing wrong? This all started happening after we had sex one weekend when i visited him, am I being clingy without even realizing it? And what can I do to stop him from feeling that way? because I actually like him and he said if I continue, I'll push him away completely.
 
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Ylog is offline Ylog Post #2  June 17,2009, 3:10pm

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Hey... this is the best advice I can give you and I hope you can read between the lines.

You need to move on. And the very simple reason that you need to move on is because he has.

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avinash is offline avinash Post #3  June 17,2009, 5:26pm
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Sounds like he's just not that into you
 
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Hi Daisy,

I have to agree with these guys. Either you are not hearing from him because he is not that into you or you are not hearing from him because he is not into a relationship.

And also, I think even when someone is looking for a relationship - talking multiples a day is a little too much, in my opinion. That would get on my nerves...might be cute for a little bit but then it would get old for me and pretty fast.
 
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I think after a month and a half his behavior is inappropriate. If he is getting angry so soon into the relationship I see issues ahead. He shouldn't be angry about anything. Talk to him about it. If he doesn't want to hear what you have to say, let him go. You are who you are, you feel how you feel, you shouldn't change that for anyone.
 
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