Does this girl exist?

...we do exist, at any age. ;-)

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I do like to drink every now and then...and drunkenness can be so much fun! Some things you just don't out grow.

Sex: Female
Age: 21-27 (I'm 24)
Smoke?: Never
Drink?: Rarely/Never (or at least, never to get drunk)
Religion: open to other peoples beliefs (i.e. not a fundamentalist)
Physical Attractiveness: Average (or better), but not overly concerned with their looks.
Activity level: Loves doing things and staying active! (i.e. doesn't just sit around watching T.V. during their free time)
Personality: Someone who is kind and thinks more about other peoples needs than their own. (i.e. someone who is willing to give of themselves for causes other than their own).
Personal Health: Stays healthy, physically and emotionally. Also a responsible, honest and genuine person.
Intelligence: Either wise or intelligent by most people's standards.
Kids: Wants a family


Out of my 143 matches over 3 months, I have only found one person to (potentially) fit this criteria. After one attempt to communicate, an ice-breaker of "Just wanted to say "Hi!"" and 6 days, the match was closed because she was "pursuing another match".

I can't tell if my difficulty finding girls is just because of where I live (Wisconsin) because we are known for our alcohol consumption or what, but I am losing hope that "she's" out there and available. So, is she out there? Am I living in the wrong state? Should I be looking somewhere I'm not already?

Sex: Female
Age: 21-27 (I'm 24)
Smoke?: Never
Drink?: Rarely/Never (or at least, never to get drunk)
Religion: open to other peoples beliefs (i.e. not a fundamentalist)
Physical Attractiveness: Average (or better), but not overly concerned with their looks.
Activity level: Loves doing things and staying active! (i.e. doesn't just sit around watching T.V. during their free time)
Personality: Someone who is kind and thinks more about other peoples needs than their own. (i.e. someone who is willing to give of themselves for causes other than their own).
Personal Health: Stays healthy, physically and emotionally. Also a responsible, honest and genuine person.
Intelligence: Either wise or intelligent by most people's standards.
Kids: Wants a family


Out of my 143 matches over 3 months, I have only found one person to (potentially) fit this criteria. After one attempt to communicate, an ice-breaker of "Just wanted to say "Hi!"" and 6 days, the match was closed because she was "pursuing another match".

I can't tell if my difficulty finding girls is just because of where I live (Wisconsin) because we are known for our alcohol consumption or what, but I am losing hope that "she's" out there and available. So, is she out there? Am I living in the wrong state? Should I be looking somewhere I'm not already?

What are your distance settings? How strictly have you set the restrictions on your other settings? Just remember to keep an open mind and an open heart when dating, especially online. Pictures and profiles can only tell a small part of the story. I find it very difficult to believe that out of 143 people, only 1 met the criteria you laid out. Are you sure your definition of average looking isn't too demanding? Did you even try to talk to any of the other 142 people? If not, how can you be sure they aren't right for you?

All the criteria on your check list are pretty reasonable, and probably not that hard to find where ever you live. The above in red though, makes me wonder if you are looking for Mother Teresa and a supermodel all wrapped up in an action packed wonder-woman. Wow, wouldn't that be great!