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Hilarious. This article is completely ridiculous and completely true. When a woman blows me off, I never ever think of her again. Who care? There's lots of fish in the sea...does it matter if she goes poof?

- June 15th, 2009, 03:31 pm
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Poofing is a very unappealing sentiment! Good article - women I think maybe should think a bit more like men when it comes to dating at this level. If they don't call, it's onto the next! Too much analyzing and assuming is a waste of energy!!

- June 15th, 2009, 04:14 pm
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I would think that after all that's been discussed in the 'Talk to your Community Team' group that eH wouldn't write an article with that title. Women 'poof' just as much as men.

Then at the end of the article they fabricated a guide that says after 1 - 3 dates it's OK to 'poof'.

What's up wid dat?
- June 15th, 2009, 04:36 pm
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I think the point here is that men Poof for THESE reasons. I suspect there will be a "Why Women Poof" sometime down the road.

- June 15th, 2009, 05:25 pm
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When a woman blows me off, I never ever think of her again. Who care? There's lots of fish in the sea...does it matter if she goes poof?
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- June 15th, 2009, 05:33 pm
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Why women poof - based on what I've read on eharmony advice.

1. He was short.
2. He didn't have all his hair.
3. She met someone younger and cuter.
4. She met someone older and wiser.


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I think the point here is that men Poof for THESE reasons. I suspect there will be a "Why Women Poof" sometime down the road.

- June 15th, 2009, 09:49 pm
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Why women poof - based on what I've read on eharmony advice.

1. He was short.
2. He didn't have all his hair.
3. She met someone younger and cuter.
4. She met someone older and wiser.
You forgot

5. He was laid-back (aka pot smoker - that's a new one)
6. He did not have enough money
7. He does not talk to his mom enough
8. He talks to his mom too much

- June 15th, 2009, 09:54 pm
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tweet37 wrote :
I would think that after all that's been discussed in the 'Talk to your Community Team' group that eH wouldn't write an article with that title. Women 'poof' just as much as men.

Then at the end of the article they fabricated a guide that says after 1 - 3 dates it's OK to 'poof'.

What's up wid dat?
I kind of liked that piece...the Emily Post school of edating etiquette.
- June 15th, 2009, 09:55 pm
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Guys are less complicated than girls. There is really one very good reason. Do we need to know anything more than he is not that into you? Nope. And not getting back is answer enough, very very spineless but enough.
- June 15th, 2009, 11:06 pm
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gr8guy wrote :
Why women poof - based on what I've read on eharmony advice.

1. He was short.
2. He didn't have all his hair.
3. She met someone younger and cuter.
4. She met someone older and wiser.
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You forgot

5. He was laid-back (aka pot smoker - that's a new one)
6. He did not have enough money
7. He does not talk to his mom enough
8. He talks to his mom too much

9. He still lives with his parents.
10. She drives a 20+ year old Honda.
11. She collects cats.
12. He has three ex-wives.

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