girly33 is offline girly33 Post #1  June 14,2009, 6:10pm
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I was communicating via email with a match who started initial communication with me. We exchanged only a couple of emails with us both just describing our likes and dislikes. We both have so much in common and seemed to be interested in eachother, but all of a sudden i haven't heard from him in over a week. The only thing I said was to feel free to ask me any questions and I was glad we started chatting. Did I say something to scare him away or perhaps he is so busy that he hasn't had a chance to email me back? Should I send him another email to see how he's doing? Confused?!?!?
 
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JoJoBean is offline JoJoBean Post #2  June 14,2009, 6:12pm
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Go ahead and send him another e-mail, but I am guessing he is busy with other matches.

Always remember not to put all your eggs in one basket.
 
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JoJoBean wrote :
Go ahead and send him another e-mail, but I am guessing he is busy with other matches.

Always remember not to put all your eggs in one basket.
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And you should be pursuing other matches also.
 
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It's easy for people to get busy with life in general and not be able to reply to an email. Perhaps he wants to wait until he has enough time for a proper response. Just don't take it to heart, because it's going to happen more often than not. It's just the nature of this whole thing.
 
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Thanks for the advice everyone...I will email him one more time and if I still don't get a response, then I'll take the hint. I would rather have him tell me he is pursuing someone else or is not interested anymore, then have me wonder but, like you said I should also communicate with others as well and not put all of my eggs in onebasket.
 
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