DennisWisconsin is offline DennisWisconsin Post #1  June 14,2009, 4:58pm
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So I had a day at work... get home... play on the internet... read some email... make dinner... relax a little... chillin... call? really? now?
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lol.....and that's really where he likes or does not like her enough comes in....

He has fun talking to her, he calls - it's icing on the cake. He doesn't......meh....call her tomorrow.....maybe...
 
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DancingFool wrote :
lol.....and that's really where he likes or does not like her enough comes in....

He has fun talking to her, he calls - it's icing on the cake. He doesn't......meh....call her tomorrow.....maybe...
not every guys motivations can be read like a book.
 
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What if you don't like talking on the phone?

I've always been more of a face to face style of person. Talking on the phone at length is not something I especially like to do.

If I do pick up the phone to call my girlfriend it's usually to meet her somewhere.

Keep in mind as well that men tend to be more activity oriented in thought processes.

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I agree with the guys here... and I would add that - especially with the first couple of phone calls - like with any type of call where you don't know the person well, you may have to prepare some...

When I make business calls I a;ways make sure I know the agenda... Why would calling a woman be different the first times?
 
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lol.. I'm not the type of woman to be sitting by my phone anyhow. But i found your post really funny if a man doesn't want to call me, its because he doesn't want to there is no mystery in that. Its common sense. WHY he doesnt want to call me.. I will never know, should I worry about it and hunt him down? Heck no lol.. if he wants me, he'll come get me
 
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I dated a guy who would get so wrapped up in his work and after work coaching that he would go a few days without calling, even after saying "I'll talk to you tomorrow". I told him it didn't bother me and that, if I started feeling neglected, I would call him, but not calling me every day was fine. He thought that was great.

In theory.

When I actually did call (to see if he was better a day and a half after he said he was feeling very sick) I went straight to voicemail and got an email 2 days later saying he "had to remain true" to himself. Okay... huh?

I've had guys call me every other day and others 4 or 5 times a day. Seemed to have nothing to do with how much they cared about me, unless the frequency for that one person increases or decreases. Then you have to wonder what's going on.
 
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