manntx is offline manntx Post #1  June 14,2009, 9:03am
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Was matched with somone on eHarmony and moment we started talking on phone we instantly hit it off. We've been talking on a daily basis and sending text's to each other throughout the day for 2 weeks. We've gone out once and had a great time, ended the date with a hug and kiss and both agreed we would like to see each other again. Didn't set a date/time since she has a 3 yr old and has to schedule around him, which I completely understand.

Like I said we've been talking daily for 2 weeks and all of a sudden I don't her from her. Hadn't heard from her since Friday morn. Normally I wouldn't think much of it since we've only been out one time. But talking everyday then the sudden silence has got me wondering. Tried calling her Sat morn and sent her a text, but hadn't heard back from her.

I've only tried calling her the one time and the one text. I would like to try and call her again, but not sure it's the right thing to do. Should I just wait to hear from her? Or how long should I wait to try and call her again?
 
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waltercl is offline waltercl Post #2  June 14,2009, 9:04am
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When was the face to face date?
 
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Started talking last week of May and date was on the 6/6
 
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churumbeque is offline churumbeque Post #4  June 14,2009, 9:36am
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She's playing the field and more than likely she had an overnighter so she couldn't reply.
 
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manntx wrote :
Started talking last week of May and date was on the 6/6
Was there a noticeable change after the face to face date?
 
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Maybe a family crisis came up, maybe the battery on her phone died, maybe the kid dropped her phone in the toilet, who knows! Try again around Tuesday --sooner looks a little desperate. Exception: a quick "everything ok?" text this afternoon or Monday would probably be ok.
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waltercl wrote :
Was there a noticeable change after the face to face date?
No...not really. If anything a change for the good. Even after the date she called me and we talked for about another hour.

And on Wednesday the 10th we even made plans to go out the next weekend since her son will be with his father that weekend.

I know there are many reasons for her not calling or texting and I'm probably just worrying myself for nothing. Or she has moved on and doesn't think were a good fit. Either way life goes on and you move on. But for the record I am hoping that I'm just worrying myself for nothing.
 
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churumbeque wrote :
She's playing the field and more than likely she had an overnighter so she couldn't reply.
I think Churumbeque has it right - it sounds as if she is leaving her "options" open. Don't rush her - it's still very early in the relationship. She may get turned off if you continue the pursuit. You need to keep your options open as well . . .
 
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From what you have said this does not seem to be the norm for her. I think that a "Is everything OK" call or text would be appropriate at least by Monday.
 
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