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I don't get that. I'll never understand how anyone can date more than one person at the same time. It seems insincere to me. You don't "hedge your bets" in dating. If one person doesn't work out THEN go on to the next person, but not before. I wouldn't want to date anyone that was seeing someone else at the same time. Me, I'm a one woman man because I'm incapable of cheating on someone I either care about or that I'm trying to establish a relationship with and isn't that what most women say they want? I mean, how would you react if you saw the man you were dating, out with someone else? If this is a sign of modern times where its okay to have multiple partners then you're on EH for the wrong reasons IMO.
It's easy for WOMEN to date more than one person at the same time.


Because the man ALWAYS pays the expenses for the dates.


People's comments that "women want equal pay BUT want the men to pay everything notwithstanding), it is basically still, always true in this country, all ages, all socio economic brackets, all races, all everything.: The guy has to pay.


All she has to do is sit back and enjoy it, and this is why "Christianlife" can date so many, it is all free. Just has to manage her schedule and NOT get the names mixed up. LOLZ


In about a year of dating females before I became exclusive with any of them, I always was simply expected to pay, even when the females earned a LOT more than me.

It just is what it is. You have to deal with it.
 
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6dle899 wrote :
It's easy for WOMEN to date more than one person at the same time.


Because the man ALWAYS pays the expenses for the dates.


People's comments that "women want equal pay BUT want the men to pay everything notwithstanding), it is basically still, always true in this country, all ages, all socio economic brackets, all races, all everything.: The guy has to pay.


All she has to do is sit back and enjoy it, and this is why "Christianlife" can date so many, it is all free. Just has to manage her schedule and NOT get the names mixed up. LOLZ


In about a year of dating females before I became exclusive with any of them, I always was simply expected to pay, even when the females earned a LOT more than me.

It just is what it is. You have to deal with it.

The man does NOT always pay and I don't always expect it but it is nice when they do.Last summer,I dated someone and I almost always paid my own way.The guy was out of work and I didn't mind that much.I didn't really have a lot of extra money, either but it was what it was.

My last serious boyfriend, before I joined Eharmony, paid for everything and I really wasn't used to it.I kept trying to offer to pay for things but he wouldn't let me.I bought him things(not expensive but thoughtful things) but he wouldn't let me pay for any of the times we went out.

The guy I went out with, a few weeks ago(hour late,no cell phone guy) asked me to go dutch.

The last few guys I went out with have paid and it is nice but I never expect it of them.
 
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6dle899 wrote :
It's easy for WOMEN to date more than one person at the same time.


Because the man ALWAYS pays the expenses for the dates.


People's comments that "women want equal pay BUT want the men to pay everything notwithstanding), it is basically still, always true in this country, all ages, all socio economic brackets, all races, all everything.: The guy has to pay.


All she has to do is sit back and enjoy it, and this is why "Christianlife" can date so many, it is all free. Just has to manage her schedule and NOT get the names mixed up. LOLZ


In about a year of dating females before I became exclusive with any of them, I always was simply expected to pay, even when the females earned a LOT more than me.

It just is what it is. You have to deal with it.
I have a solution for you. If you are in search of a woman who doesn't enjoy being treated, then simply refuse to do so and see who is left standing.
 
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