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eHA_Admin_Lori is offline eHA_Admin_Lori — Advice Official Moderator Post #1  June 8,2009, 11:49am
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How was everyone's weekend?

Any dates to tell about?

I had a lovely weekend celebrating a milestone birthday with one of my best friends (it was his birthday, not mine). Much eating, drinking and merriment!

How about you?
 
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jsgj1 is offline jsgj1 Post #2  June 8,2009, 1:05pm
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From Wed. to Sun. my week was very mad (No Details people) I was in Open Communication with a match....I told him how bad my week had been....I also said in the message that I needed a hug, and I wrote , I wanted to get my mind off of how bad my week was....so I ask him to tell me some good news about his week or just something great that has made him smile. I wanted to focus on anything but the foolishness that was going on in my life.

This is what he wrote back to me "week ok" and that was all

needless to say I closed the match.....but before I did I wrote back to him...."maybe u should read ur messages with alittle more heart...I was looking for the caring u, not the cold u" or something close to that

Do u think I was to harsh.....maybe asking to much to soon? We have been in Open Communication for about 7to8 days at the most
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #3  June 8,2009, 4:12pm
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Yet another outstanding fantastic date.
 
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lindseyk is offline lindseyk Post #4  June 8,2009, 4:15pm

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I had a lovely weekend!!

On Friday night, he cooked supper for me at my house and then we sat and talked for hours.

On Saturday, a friend and I drove out to visit HIM, which was a lot of fun. I received the nod of approval from my friend! lol

On Sunday, we went to church together and then out for lunch. We had a lovely afternoon!

All in all, I wouldn't have changed a thing!
 
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jsgj1 wrote :
From Wed. to Sun. my week was very mad (No Details people) I was in Open Communication with a match....I told him how bad my week had been....I also said in the message that I needed a hug, and I wrote , I wanted to get my mind off of how bad my week was....so I ask him to tell me some good news about his week or just something great that has made him smile. I wanted to focus on anything but the foolishness that was going on in my life.

This is what he wrote back to me "week ok" and that was all

needless to say I closed the match.....but before I did I wrote back to him...."maybe u should read ur messages with alittle more heart...I was looking for the caring u, not the cold u" or something close to that

Do u think I was to harsh.....maybe asking to much to soon? We have been in Open Communication for about 7to8 days at the most
I can understand why you wrote that back and no one who replies with "week ok" after what you asked for should not be surprised to get that response.

Sorry that you had a bad week :-( I hope that this one will be better.
 
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I have been dealing with a flake, I was hoping I would have a date last weekend but no such luck :-(
 
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And y'all can read more about it in my thread in the Ask A Dating Expert section.
 
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Mr_Right wrote :
And y'all can read more about it in my thread in the Ask A Dating Expert section.
blah bla blabbity blah blabber blah. What could you possibly ask in that section!? You guys are perfect!

I had two dates. Well, two dates planned. My Friday night was sick and cancelled (for real! He emailed me on Thursday, very nice and respectful and we talked again on Friday to reset something up) and I cancelled my Saturday date because I had so much to do before leaving town! So...I almost had two dates...
 
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cp30 wrote :
blah bla blabbity blah blabber blah. What could you possibly ask in that section!? You guys are perfect!

I had two dates. Well, two dates planned. My Friday night was sick and cancelled (for real! He emailed me on Thursday, very nice and respectful and we talked again on Friday to reset something up) and I cancelled my Saturday date because I had so much to do before leaving town! So...I almost had two dates...
It's funny that you say that. Saturday I was hanging out with some of my old college buddies late at night, and after a friend of mine had finished describing where he was in his relationship and the frustrations/problems that he has, I mentioned about how much I disliked how much she worked, and that she's always busy.

Then one of my best friends said, "Ya know, I believe she's real now. For all this time, we've heard nothing but good things, and you haven't complained at all. This is the first time we've heard ANYTHING negative about her. Yeah, she's gotta be real."

I was like, "Gee, thanks."
 
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jsgj1 wrote :
From Wed. to Sun. my week was very mad (No Details people) I was in Open Communication with a match....I told him how bad my week had been....I also said in the message that I needed a hug, and I wrote , I wanted to get my mind off of how bad my week was....so I ask him to tell me some good news about his week or just something great that has made him smile. I wanted to focus on anything but the foolishness that was going on in my life.

This is what he wrote back to me "week ok" and that was all

needless to say I closed the match.....but before I did I wrote back to him...."maybe u should read ur messages with alittle more heart...I was looking for the caring u, not the cold u" or something close to that

Do u think I was to harsh.....maybe asking to much to soon? We have been in Open Communication for about 7to8 days at the most
Just an aside to your post that has nothing to do with the thread topic.

If you have not progressed from the Open Communication level you should at all times be putting your best face out there and so mentioning that you are having / had a bad week is not a good thing to do. This type of communication should not happen until you have some sort of relationship going on. Asking for a hug could be appropriate at any time though.

As for his reply, well that just shows what type of guy he is and your reply was not at all out of line. You are better off without guys like this.

And since you were needing a hug, here is a BIG HUG
 
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