iammclovin is offline iammclovin Post #1  June 5,2009, 4:57pm
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I've been single for almost 6 months now, and the past cuple moths I've thoguht A LOT abotu trying to get abck with my ex. I ahven't talked to her sicne the day we broke up, but now I'm thinking about getting back with her. when we broke up, i was still in love with her, and from what I've seen and heard, she is still single. How do i go about gettign back with her?
 
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I would call, and ask the person out in a way that you expect to convey the best things you had while you were together.
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dont forget...its been close to 6 months since we talked
 
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Just be straightforward with it. Call her up, and tell her that you would like to get together to talk over coffee, dinner, or whatever your thing is. Tell her you've been thinking about her. If she's completely put off by the thought, then you pretty much know that she's moved on. If she accepts, show up, don't be late, and give it your best effort. Good luck.
 
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iammclovin wrote :
I've been single for almost 6 months now, and the past cuple moths I've thoguht A LOT abotu trying to get abck with my ex. I ahven't talked to her sicne the day we broke up, but now I'm thinking about getting back with her. when we broke up, i was still in love with her, and from what I've seen and heard, she is still single. How do i go about gettign back with her?
I think a better idea is to try to remember why it is she is your "ex."
 
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stevex is offline stevex Post #6  June 5,2009, 6:03pm
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It is possible to get back with an ex, but why did you two break up? Has that fact changed?
 
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stevex wrote :
It is possible to get back with an ex, but why did you two break up? Has that fact changed?

we split casue I let school, work and athletics get int he way of seeign ehr. it was just bad timing, but i've learned to make time for dating outside off all my school and business.
 
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Hold on McLovin, before you do that you really need to consider the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Because if those reasons were valid I can guarantee you, they haven't magically disappeared in the past 6 months.

Post breakup when you are alone and bored etc, getting back together can seem much better than where you are. But it's just a knee jerk reaction most of the time.
 
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Since it has been six months and you know for a fact she does not have a boyfriend, then by all means call her. One thing you must consider is that she most likely is going to be a hard sell on getting back together because she will be wondering if you will dump her again. Good luck
 
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Who initiated the split? If it was her she may not be at all interested in getting back with you.
 
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