Am I wearing a dating "kick me" sign


Reply
  • Page 1 of 3
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
 
Topic Tools Search this Thread
KungFuFtr is offline KungFuFtr Post #1  June 2,2009, 12:18am
KungFuFtr's Avatar

I just saved a bundle on child support by switching to condoms!

Veteran

Joined: Dec 2008

San Antonio Texas

Posts: 1,025

See profile

Ok

So I was matched with someone a month ago and things progressed to multiple choice, open communication, phone conv x2 and coffee. So after coffee I was neutral. I had 2 more dates with her and there was laughing, joking blah blah blah.

The thing that's strange is I'm attracted to her; however, I can't put my finger on why. Usually I might be drawn to a pretty face, chest, glutes or personality. In the past, (regarding attraction) whatever the reason was, I knew why I was attracted to someone. With this lady I feel an attraction and it's just a little frustrating that I can't pinpoint the reason. I really haven't told anyone, because it's only 3 dates. I'd sound like a tool anyways talking to a coworker "I had a hot date this weekend with a beautiful lady". "Oh yeah, in what way is she a hottie?" "I have no clue."

So, now God is really joking with me (probably for all my bad religious jokes). I get back from my martial arts commute and head to the 24 hour gym to work off some tension. During my workout, a lady asks me a question regarding an exercise I was doing. So she picks up that I work in the medical profession, as does she. It turns out that she works with a friend of mine on a different unit of the hospital. I say goodbye and leave the gym. I get a text from my RN friend saying that the gym lady is "into me" and wants to know if I'm single. The kicker...
I get home, eat and check my facebook account... a different friend is trying to play matchmaker with me and some mystery woman.

What the Hell??!! Is there a dating "kick me" sign on my back? I'm interested in the lady at the beginning of this thread. So, now since I have little interest in dating others; these others are interested in me?

(Banging my forehead against the wall because I'm puzzled)
 
  Reply With Quote
IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #2  June 2,2009, 1:14am
IcecreamMoon's Avatar

Nothing to see here at all...

Virtuoso

Joined: May 2009

Posts: 2,847

See profile

KungFuFtr wrote :
(Banging my forehead against the wall because I'm puzzled)
Don't bang too hard or you might disfigure yourself and lose all 3 of them. Or are you trying to test them?

I have no idea why it happens, all I can say is you are not alone. 3 weeks ago I had to attend an industry function and bring a date. Not a singe prospect in sight, so I asked one of my male friends. Now I have 2 guys asking me out and I've known one of them for over a year! Where were they 3 weeks ago?? Oh well, ours is to wonder why...

As to why you like your EH match - does it really matter now? Enjoy the feeling, you'll figure it out eventually. It probably has something to do with her personality or the way you feel about yourself when you are in her company. Enjoy!
 
  Reply With Quote
curious_girl is offline curious_girl Post #3  June 2,2009, 2:31am
curious_girl's Avatar

looks catch the eye, personality captures the heart :)

Virtuoso

Joined: Oct 2008

Southern GA

Posts: 3,583

See profile

The law of nature, my friend.

I'm not over my ex; so of course; men are climbing the walls to go out with me. Seriously; one guy is PLEADING for just one date. And I can't do it because I don't think it's fair to him.

So; you show me my "kick me" dating sign; and I'll show you yours. hee hee.
 
  Reply With Quote
Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #4  June 2,2009, 4:47am
Gr8Guyn2008's Avatar

I'm crippled by the fear That I've fallen too far to love

Sage

Joined: Jan 2008

Orlando, FL

Posts: 19,670

See profile

That is the way it always works. When it rains it pours.
 
  Reply With Quote
lucky173 is offline lucky173 Post #5  June 2,2009, 5:05am
lucky173's Avatar

says "I like two kinds of men: domestic and imported"

Veteran

Joined: Feb 2008

NY

Posts: 1,510

See profile

KFF, you're complaining why?? Interest from too many women? Boo-hoo for you

I'd think you'd be looking for a kick me sign if NO ONE was interested in you, not the other way around.

As far as not knowing why you're attracted to the woman you've been out with a few times, does it really matter *why* you're attracted to her? Just go with the fact that you ARE attracted to her and stop thinkin' on it so much before you talk yourself out of it or something crazy like that.... sheeesh!

Have fun girl-magnet
 
  Reply With Quote
angelofmerci is offline angelofmerci Post #6  June 2,2009, 5:45am
angelofmerci's Avatar

loves the feel of the wind blowing in his face while riding the curves

Veteran

Joined: Jul 2008

Posts: 1,302

See profile

Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
That is the way it always works. When it rains it pours.

Oh how very true
 
  Reply With Quote
angelofmerci is offline angelofmerci Post #7  June 2,2009, 5:49am
angelofmerci's Avatar

loves the feel of the wind blowing in his face while riding the curves

Veteran

Joined: Jul 2008

Posts: 1,302

See profile

curious_girl wrote :
The law of nature, my friend.

I'm not over my ex; so of course; men are climbing the walls to go out with me. Seriously; one guy is PLEADING for just one date. And I can't do it because I don't think it's fair to him.

So; you show me my "kick me" dating sign; and I'll show you yours. hee hee.

When I was in my early 30's a really sharp looking blonde lived in the apartment next to mine. She was dating one guy but broke up with him. I had wanted to ask her out but I swear that girl must have had guys circling in the air just waiting for an opportunity to ask her out. She was dating again in no time flat. Your story sounds like hers.
 
  Reply With Quote
Dafearon is offline Dafearon Post #8  June 2,2009, 5:53am
Dafearon's Avatar

Veteran

Joined: Jul 2008

Maryland

Posts: 2,181

See profile

Date them all and see where it goes. I see no problem here. Try not to get tunnel vision and do not deceive. Then go out and enjoy yourself.
 
  Reply With Quote
coffeegeek is offline coffeegeek Post #9  June 2,2009, 5:54am
coffeegeek's Avatar

You just can't be nice to some people ...

Veteran

Joined: Apr 2009

Posts: 1,045

See profile

KungFuFtr wrote :
Ok

So I was matched with someone a month ago and things progressed to multiple choice, open communication, phone conv x2 and coffee. So after coffee I was neutral. I had 2 more dates with her and there was laughing, joking blah blah blah.

The thing that's strange is I'm attracted to her; however, I can't put my finger on why. Usually I might be drawn to a pretty face, chest, glutes or personality. In the past, (regarding attraction) whatever the reason was, I knew why I was attracted to someone. With this lady I feel an attraction and it's just a little frustrating that I can't pinpoint the reason. I really haven't told anyone, because it's only 3 dates. I'd sound like a tool anyways talking to a coworker "I had a hot date this weekend with a beautiful lady". "Oh yeah, in what way is she a hottie?" "I have no clue."

So, now God is really joking with me (probably for all my bad religious jokes). I get back from my martial arts commute and head to the 24 hour gym to work off some tension. During my workout, a lady asks me a question regarding an exercise I was doing. So she picks up that I work in the medical profession, as does she. It turns out that she works with a friend of mine on a different unit of the hospital. I say goodbye and leave the gym. I get a text from my RN friend saying that the gym lady is "into me" and wants to know if I'm single. The kicker...
I get home, eat and check my facebook account... a different friend is trying to play matchmaker with me and some mystery woman.

What the Hell??!! Is there a dating "kick me" sign on my back? I'm interested in the lady at the beginning of this thread. So, now since I have little interest in dating others; these others are interested in me?

(Banging my forehead against the wall because I'm puzzled)
Yes, yes, poor you. You're seeing a woman you like and have others just throwing themselves at you. OH, THE HORROR!

I hope this thread is just a joke. Most guys would kill to be in your position. Congrats!
 
  Reply With Quote
1passionatefem is offline 1passionatefem Post #10  June 2,2009, 9:01am
1passionatefe…'s Avatar

Dreaming about summer vacation

Pacesetter

Joined: Jul 2008

Pennsylvania

Posts: 301

See profile

Do you have exclusivity with No. 1? If not, she maybe dating others.
You ask why are you attracted to her? She just maybe the total package and have multiple things that draw you to her. There should always be more than just one reason.
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply
  • Page 1 of 3
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3


« Question about sharing food?Also,update about mall guy. | Dating | Men and Telephones.... »
Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
Is There Something Dating Articles Aren't Telling Women? outlaw1 A Man's Point of view 22 August 12,2009 8:04am

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“Most anyone has been there I imagine. My advice is: don't over think it, it's all a numbers game (more for some than others), focus on your happiness/life, and work on your market value.” –  Raw_Truth

Join the “Very discouraged.” discussion

“ I figured it had something to do with that "hair gel" that Cameron Diaz was using in the movie "There's Something About Mary"...” –  Shelby

Join the “What kind of add you see on this board?” discussion

“I used to do this in my youth. A couple relevant factors likely were that I broke up with them, they would have liked to re-engage and I had poor boundaries--desperately wanting to stay friends. ... ” –  EccentricAmbiguity

Join the “Hold on, hold on, hold on!” discussion

“ You can also try saran wrapping your midsection for a few days. I've heard that works but I haven't tried it. If you do, please let us know how things go. . Lol!! Why don't you try it first ... ” –  EccentricAmbiguity

Join the “Belly Fat” discussion

“Trust your gut feelings! It seems to me his friend does not have a sense of boundaries and it seems that your boyfriend is doing nothing to discourage his constant annoying interference in your ... ” –  elliechris

Join the “When is friendship a problem” discussion

“Lol yeah I do hope so. Thanks again! ” –  elyone

Join the “Profile Review please 25/F” discussion

“Jenky & PSG, you two are so great! I'm loving following your story! I admire you both for being brave enough to try this. LDRs are hard no matter how you look at it. It requires a significant ... ” –  singinggirl

Join the “My Virtual Relationship or The five day first date” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 11:06pm.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0