Playful teasing, do girls like playful teasing?


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hankm25 is offline hankm25 Post #1  June 1,2009, 9:22pm
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What does it say about a man who playfully teases you? Do you like being teased?
 
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It really depends on the style as everyone is sensitive on something. The key is to figure out the boundaries of playful and going too far whether it is words or something you do.

I find teasing can show chemistry or how you react with each other very well. It has a way of bonding people closer or driving them apart.

So I would consider it kinda like a test...can be fun...but also can be painful.
 
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I'm beginning to trust not trusting my first response. When I first read the question I thought, "Yes!" I'm not so sure now. It's kind of like dirty talk. The words you use may not be the kind of words I use. It's the same with teasing. The image that surfaced in my head probably isn't what you're thinking.

You know, tonight I asked someone to run their hands through my hair while they told me I was beautiful and that I smelled good.

They did.

It suddenly occured to me that know one had ever done that to me in the 41 years I've been living. I regretted it so much I started crying.

I cried so hard I had to excuse myself.

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Personally I love being teased and I love teasing, but as mentioned before it's important to establish boundaries. What's frivolous for one person can be hurtful to someone else.

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It suddenly occured to me that know one had ever done that to me in the 41 years I've been living. I regretted it so much I started crying.
You've got plenty of time to make up for those 41 years. Have at it!
 
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Yes, but only if the guy knows how to do it well
 
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It depends on what he considers playful. My ex used to say "it's not what I say, it's how I say it." Too many of his so-called playful comments were very hurtful. It didn't take long to wonder if it was the old saying: There's many a true word spoken in jest.
 
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It kind of depends on the subject of the tease and the frequency.

A little teasing can be flirting but if it is constant it can become irritating at best and probably is more intended as a put down and is an indications of the persons character.
 
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hankm25 wrote :
What does it say about a man who playfully teases you? Do you like being teased?
It depends on, exactly, what you mean by "playful teasing". Examples?
 
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777nom wrote :
You know, tonight I asked someone to run their hands through my hair while they told me I was beautiful and that I smelled good.

They did.

[FONT=Calibri]When you pressure your partner for a compliment, do you believe the resultant compliment is real?
 
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777nom wrote :
I'm beginning to trust not trusting my first response. When I first read the question I thought, "Yes!" I'm not so sure now. It's kind of like dirty talk. The words you use may not be the kind of words I use. It's the same with teasing. The image that surfaced in my head probably isn't what you're thinking.

You know, tonight I asked someone to run their hands through my hair while they told me I was beautiful and that I smelled good.

They did.

It suddenly occured to me that know one had ever done that to me in the 41 years I've been living. I regretted it so much I started crying.

I cried so hard I had to excuse myself.

Nom
I've had girls cry on me on dates for no reason... and let me tell you, if you're standing there and you have no idea what's going on, it's not a pleasant feeling.
 
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