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Chickie1984 is offline Chickie1984 Post #71  May 27,2009, 7:47pm
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So judging someone as conceited right off the bat without knowing anything about them is suitable? Interesting!
judging someone as conceited is one thing, it's an opinion. Making comments about being in a "certain profession" etc is another, as well as just being mean about it. Maybe some social skills would be a beneficial addition to your work ethic and no BS style. Nothing wrong w/ a no bs attitude, but keeping things civil is important. A simple "I don't feel like your comments are a beneficial addition to this thread" is a no bs and nice way of putting it. Or just plain old ignoring the person. this is the internet, ignoring someone isn't rude like it is in person.
 
 
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judging someone as conceited is one thing, it's an opinion. Making comments about being in a "certain profession" etc is another, as well as just being mean about it. Maybe some social skills would be a beneficial addition to your work ethic and no BS style. Nothing wrong w/ a no bs attitude, but keeping things civil is important. A simple "I don't feel like your comments are a beneficial addition to this thread" is a no bs and nice way of putting it. Or just plain old ignoring the person. this is the internet, ignoring someone isn't rude like it is in person.
Nothing wrong with forming an opinion, but base that opinion once you have your facts straight. Her very first posting was I'm conceited without know anything about me...very immature to say the least. My social skills are just fine as I talk to people all over the world every single day for my job and am very good at what I do. You want to judge me fine....do so AFTER you have had a conversation with me and know something about me!!
 
 
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If I describe myself as an attractive, intelligent, successful, homeowner with an active social life, great friends, and a job I love. Does that make me conceited? Wondering what is ruffling so many feathers in this thread.
 
 
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Of course, you do! You are just being modest. We all have something to offer to everyone, including you.
ah, but there were times when I didn't. I was just cracking into my 20's and still very juvenile, very broke and misdirected. Sure, I may have been *fun* to some women but I had no business dating the few that I were with who were successful.

All im saying is that sometimes successful people with their stuff together do like to be with people who arent challenges for them. They get challenged at work, challenged in their social circles and dont want to be challenged in their relationship.
 
 
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Beats me..I ask a question and I'm the bad guy! lmao!!
 
 
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Nothing wrong with forming an opinion, but base that opinion once you have your facts straight. Her very first posting was I'm conceited without know anything about me..You want to judge me fine....do so AFTER you have had a conversation with me and know something about me!!
So you're saying that your dates should endure some time with you, in order to get their facts straight before deciding you're conceited?? I guess that's fair -- do you usually pick up the tab??
 
 
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lol what does picking up th tab have to do with anything. To answer our question...yes I pay..I'm old fashioned
 
 
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I wonder if maybe it's sexual chemistry. I have unfortunately been blinded by great sex in the past. What got me to that point to begin with? I looked at the positive stuff and pushed everything else out of my mind because of the chemistry.
 
 
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Had it both ways...ya can't build a relationship on great sex and you can't build a relationship on great conversation without chemistry either. Tried both way..doesn't work
 
 
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You're welcome BFC!

My version of the BS comments, so do I need to beat it?
 
 
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