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I'm wondering....

When the time comes... after you've been doing this dating stuff for awhile and you're feeling a little less then encouraged, the sun is out, your attentions turn to friends and fun and then it happens...

You meet someone who makes your heart skip a beat... you follow through and sure enough... you're surprised at how you're feeling. A week or so passes and things are progressing quickly, you are optimistic and hopeful... the more time you spend, the better it gets...

You were ready to hang it up for awhile... give dating a break... enjoy the summer and when you least expect it... a relationship.

This could happen at any time, but are you really ready for it? Have you asked yourself this question? We're here because we are all interested in meeting "the one", but again, are you truly ready for it? Mr. or Mrs. Right maybe just around the corner and you have absolutely no idea. Do you have your inventory of values and goals ready? Do you really know what you want? Do you even want a relationship? The other person may well be completely ready, but are you? It puts me in mind of the saying "Be careful what you wish for"

I've met people who want someone in their lives, but aren't prepared for a serious relationship. I think we must all ask ourselves this question. The person you meet may be very disappointed if you aren't prepared to follow through. They are likely looking for a serious, long term relationship... are you?

Food for thought! What say you... I know... I am completely ready for the rest of my life to happen with someone!

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Tyym wrote :
I'm wondering....

When the time comes... after you've been doing this dating stuff for awhile and you're feeling a little less then encouraged, the sun is out, your attentions turn to friends and fun and then it happens...

You meet someone who makes your heart skip a beat... you follow through and sure enough... you're surprised at how you're feeling. A week or so passes and things are progressing quickly, you are optimistic and hopeful... the more time you spend, the better it gets...

You were ready to hang it up for awhile... give dating a break... enjoy the summer and when you least expect it... a relationship.

This could happen at any time, but are you really ready for it? Have you asked yourself this question? We're here because we are all interested in meeting "the one", but again, are you truly ready for it? Mr. or Mrs. Right maybe just around the corner and you have absolutely no idea. Do you have your inventory of values and goals ready? Do you really know what you want? Do you even want a relationship? The other person may well be completely ready, but are you? It puts me in mind of the saying "Be careful what you wish for"

I've met people who want someone in their lives, but aren't prepared for a serious relationship. I think we must all ask ourselves this question. The person you meet may be very disappointed if you aren't prepared to follow through. They are likely looking for a serious, long term relationship... are you?

Food for thought! What say you... I know... I am completely ready for the rest of my life to happen with someone!

Tim
And you deserve it Tim... You never know... maybe that lightening will strike the weekend of the 26th... Just sayin...
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Probably not.

But, great question.
 
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AsianFusion is offline AsianFusion Post #4  May 20,2009, 5:50pm
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Okay, who is it . . . Tyym?
 
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JoJoBean is offline JoJoBean Post #5  May 20,2009, 6:28pm
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Yes, I am ready, for the good and the bad. the up's and downs. Someone to have dinner with, Someone to spend the evenings with. Someone to wake up with and ask do you want the shower first? Yes I am ready for it all.
 
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outlaw1 is offline outlaw1 Post #6  May 20,2009, 6:40pm

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I'm seriously thinking about getting serious in a most serious manner. And I'm not kidding!

Don't YOU laugh at me, why I'll do something drastic lady. Like ask you out for a date or something. So there... Now stay away from me wimmin! Yes you you and you. But er uhm not you...! Yes call me
or [whispers] or I'll call you... Sh! don't tell anyone.
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As Prince once said "lets go crazy!"

The day I get serious about anything (other than business) is the day I'm six feet under. Sorry OP as a left-handed Citizen of eha, I had to restore sillyness (only left-handed people are in their RIGHT minds!)
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outlaw1 wrote :
I'm seriously thinking about getting serious in a most serious manner. And I'm not kidding!

Don't YOU laugh at me, why I'll do something drastic. Like ask you out for a date or something.
So there...

This crazy photo glitch thing is driving me serious! Growl...
 
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FruitaBu wrote :

Ok here's one for you:
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Seriously! Well I'm just reading on EHARMONY Advice right now because I got an e-mail. Truthfully I am not fully signed up or matching so I'm not ready enough to actively search but If I managed to meet someone who felt the same way about me as I did about them? Sure, I guess I am just still skeptical about ever being able to find that part of the equation. I guess I have the door unlocked, but I haven't swung it wide open yet.
 
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