Not my kind of situation.. but I like her!?!?!


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Djiin is offline Djiin Post #1  May 15,2009, 8:24am
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I am still pretty young and a late bloomer I guess you could say.

I got good practice in High School however but obviousely cant say I have my game down pact.

I still missread or foolishly say or give the wrong signal most of the time.

But I am glad to have found a place were real wemon give real advice!!! I have read a lot of responces and have found lots of really great advice!! Thank you much ladys!

However, my current situation feels like it's a few days late for this advice but maybe you ladys and guys can help a noob youngster lol.

I take my dog to the dog park every day. Not to really meet someone, but a few weeks ago it just so happend that a girl comes into the park. We both have Huskies, hers is female mine is male ( I know perfect situation!! lol). So she comes up and starts talking we excange names and I really think she is interested!! oops!! wait my nervusness and shyness take over when I notice not a wedding ring but a promise ring on her left ring finger. She then starts talking about her boyfreind, but she starts telling me that he moved out of town and doesn't treat her so good (doesn't really want to spend time with her makes excuses,btw he is only an hr drive from here). I don't know if I should take this as a hint to flirt and get a date or if she just wants to vent her frustration. She put thought into her answers and when we found out we felt the same way she sort of give me a playful touch on the chest or arm. This made me feel even more unconfortable I never ran into this situation before. I smiled and talked for a while but never really flirted or made a move. She wants to breed our dogs.

I think this is a kool idea.

Few days later we exchange numbers but she starts talkn about her boyfreind in conversation again but with out saying any thing is wrong with the relashionship not saying it is going good either.. Our dogs are to young to mate but she still texts me every day wanting to get together, and I find my self not knowing what to do more and more and I feel the oprotunity is sliping away if their even is one still!!

She is older then me by a year more mature then the girls I have been with before and it's really intemadating. More I get to know her the more I like this gril, I have been in love before and can reconise some what if a girl is just a "good freind" if you get my drift or someone I want to be with seriousely. I really think she is someone I want to be with serousely.

But I just seem to be mucking the situation up right from the get go!

I wish I had more experiance but aye im just a hopless romatic beginner lol.

Sorry this was so long I hope someone takes time out of their day to help a youngster out..

Thank you much.
 
 
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This is a duplicate thread with this one (http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...tion-help.html (Never had this kind of situation... Help!)), so I'm going to go ahead and lock it. Please respond on the other thread.
 
 
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