girlfriends, work, hobby which comes first and last for you guys?


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treeye is offline treeye Post #1  May 12,2009, 12:33pm
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thanks.guys.girlfriends, work, hobby which comes first and last ?


and ladies, what if "girlfriend" comes out to be the last one on his list?
 
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Are you serious TREEYE????????????????
 
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work should be first, so he can make wads of cash to take me out to expensive resturants. hobbies should be second, to keep that motorcycle and BMW running well to drive my to expensive resturants.


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Don't be silly. Hobbies should be first. The kind he can blow his whole paycheck on in a weekend.Gambling and drinking with his buddies at strip clubs.
 
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This is actually a very interesting topic, because a few months into dating my ex I began working for the non-profit that I work for. I stay very busy here and often times work long hours. My ex would get upset because I wasn't available to go out with her sometimes, and then there was the occasional weekend where I would go and participate in a radio contest (my hobby) and spend the weekend away. It wasn't that I didn't care about her, and she was welcome to participate in my hobby but wasn't interested. Was I wrong to go anyhow? Perhaps, I mean I am sure that was part of the reason we broke up.
 
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BlueEyedLizzie,614485 wrote :


Don't be silly. Hobbies should be first. The kind he can blow his whole paycheck on in a weekend.Gambling and drinking with his buddies at strip clubs.


Both of you are silly .....


I SHOULD BE FIRST, I SHOULD BE FIRST, ME FIRST, ME FIRST!!
 
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stevex,614503 wrote :

This is actually a very interesting topic, because a few months into dating my ex I began working for the non-profit that I work for. I stay very busy here and often times work long hours. My ex would get upset because I wasn't available to go out with her sometimes, and then there was the occasional weekend where I would go and participate in a radio contest (my hobby) and spend the weekend away. It wasn't that I didn't care about her, and she was welcome to participate in my hobby but wasn't interested. Was I wrong to go anyhow? Perhaps, I mean I am sure that was part of the reason we broke up.
you guys just weren't compatible- it had nothing to do with hobbies.


seriously, i don't have an issue with a man having a hobby that i have no interest in, and vice versa, because i like my me time. and i would never give a guy a problem about work, because i have a crazy schedule myself and i like not being homeless, LOL.


now, if you were making no effort to see her, even if you were tired from work, and she made no effort to accompany you to your radio thing even if she thought it was stupid, then that's why you broke up.
 
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obviously, we all need to work, i would mix in them together, i would invite that person to participate or share in it some way.we all are tired, but some of us have more responsibility than others, but isnt that what we call multi tasking?


ill say it again, if you dont have time to date, then you should let a person know, or that a particular something takes up your time.
 
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Beer comes first. Lots and lots of beer.


Seriously, though, I must have some "me" time. I like "us" time, too, but me-time is important.


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Work is a clear first priority over everything.


Dating I will find time for, and would adjust how much time I’d put into hobbies, to accommodate it.
 
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