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Hi there!


I'm new to this site and am having trouble with one of the options. I am receiving notices that tell me a "match" has closed contact.


But I have no idea who these people are. They aren't anyone I've contacted/expressed interest in. So I understandthat eharmonyis showing them my profile and they aren't interested. That'sfine. But why on earth do I need to know they aren't interested!


To me, it's like going into a bar and having someone tell you that four people have decided they aren't interested in you.Who cares. If, at some time, I was interested but they had closed the match, I understand needing to know they aren't interested. Otherwise, what's the point??


It's just a really weird function to me. Maybe I'm not understanding it so any insight would be appreciated.


Thanks!
- April 16th, 2009, 03:54 pm
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