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hankm25 is offline hankm25 Post #1  April 15,2009, 2:33pm
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The E-harmony question:


What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?


I have learned from experience really translates into:


What are you not that you wish you were.





I say this from experience because a lot of my matches write down things like: I'm really a deep person. However, when you communicate through open communication they are as shallow as a puddle.





So does anyone else agree or have the same feeling?
 
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Naah for me I looked at it as some people are often misunderstood....they're shy but people think they're stuck up....or they're just not talkative to strangers, but they're actually nice, etc..
 
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I think this question tends to get answered in a manner where the person expresses a relationship-centered viewpoint drawing from experience in his / her daily life (where no wonder they are perceived differently.)


As such, I’d say my view is less extreme than your but in the same inclination.
 
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You mean that I am supposed to read what people write in their profiles?
 
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PY,579579 wrote :

Naah for me I looked at it as some people are often misunderstood....they're shy but people think they're stuck up....or they're just not talkative to strangers, but they're actually nice, etc..

Are you a mind-reader, PY? That's so me!!! Bizarre!! That's what I meant when I was still on eH.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008,579585 wrote :

You mean that I am supposed to read what people write in their profiles?


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Gr8Guyn2008,579585 wrote :

You mean that I am supposed to read what people write in their profiles?


That hilarious. Of course, what they say in their profile is crucial. I've closed out really attractive women because they answered the first question "what are you most passionate about," with "living life to the fullest." I still don't understand what that means.
 
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lindseyk,579589 wrote :

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Naah for me I looked at it as some people are often misunderstood....they're shy but people think they're stuck up....or they're just not talkative to strangers, but they're actually nice, etc..

Are you a mind-reader, PY? That's so me!!! Bizarre!! That's what I meant when I was still on eH.
lol no..not a mind reader.
 
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I also took this question to be askingabout something that may be misunderstood, or misread.


I went to my profile and checked what I have as my actual answer, and since I honestly don't know if/when I may be misunderstood, and don't usuallyfeel misunderstood, but figure we ALL get misread from time to time, here is what I have listed for this one:


""Any person could notice or not notice different things about me. People tend to see what they want to see, and perceive what they want to perceive. I couldn't list just one thing that would pertain right across the board. Except maybe that I wish more single guys would notice that I'm SINGLE! :-) ""


Some might say it's a 'vague' answer, but honestly, there isn't anything else I can think up that I *wish* people would notice but don't - because I can't determine who all notices what and what isn't noticed by whom!
 
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hankm25, wrote :

The E-harmony question:


What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?


I have learned from experience really translates into:


What are you not that you wish you were.





I say this from experience because a lot of my matches write down things like: I'm really a deep person. However, when you communicate through open communication they are as shallow as a puddle.





So does anyone else agree or have the same feeling?



That just because I'm Asian..... that doesn't mean I'm good at math...
 
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