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FruitaBu is offline FruitaBu Post #11  April 15,2009, 10:37am
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When you are really excited about someone, you don't want to wait 6 days to communicate with them. You hardly want to wait 6 hours!



If it were me, I would have written the guy off, but at a minimum you should see other people and keep him on the back burner.
 
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You'd be surprised at how many people just aren't good communicators. I have a female friend who can talk me into a coma but just hates to write e-mails.


I agree that with all the ways technology has give us to communicate, infrequent e-mails don't make a lot of sense. If you've been communicating for as long as you have and even met in person and the communications are still that sparse, I'd say that you will probably have communication problems in your relationship. If you still want to get to know the guy it might be good to just let him know that you'd like him to e-mail you more often.


Best of luck.
 
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