What is the key question you are looking to be ASKED on the first date?


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FruitaBu is offline FruitaBu Post #11  April 14,2009, 7:01am
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I think just having someone ask me genuine questions about myself and then actually listening to the responses is a good start. I would rather have someone ask about where I see my life going in the future also instead of spending lots of time trying to pry into the past on a first date except for in a general way.


We have all been on those dates when the person rambles on about themselves for hours and doesn't even ask anything about you at all. That doesn't start things well for me...
 
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What is that key question you are hoping to be asked on the first date? What is the question that if someone DOESN'T ask it, they might not get a second date?
An answer to the first question posed in this thread I do not haveat this moment.....as for my answer to the second question I respond there will be no second date unless he asks. Note: I am thinking the first date goes well.


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PY is offline PY Post #13  April 14,2009, 8:28am

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