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Ingytravel,576269 wrote :

Oh...I just added NJ last week.............must go remove now......................Frog!
In order to maximize your appeal to menz, I advise not displaying unpredictability of this kind.


Therefore, having selected NJ in your matching, you should keep it for a length of time adequate to imply stability … such as 50 years.
 
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D_Lion,576382 wrote :

Ingytravel,576269 wrote :


Oh...I just added NJ last week.............must go remove now......................Frog!


In order to maximize your appeal to menz, I advise not displaying unpredictability of this kind.


Therefore, having selected NJ in your matching, you should keep it for a length of time adequate to imply stability … such as 50 years.
 
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D_Lion,575559 wrote :


Yeoww, or others,


What reasons do you have for wanting to be asked more questions prior to meeting?


I can't imagine not wanting to know quite a bit about someone before offering to get on a plane and travel thousands of miles to meet. Yikes! And conversation involves a give and take rather than a monologue. And eye candy only goes so far - even at my age!
 
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dolphin239,575656 wrote :

I was also going to say I'll bet they are older guys. Then I saw in your profile you are a 55 yr old single parent. Wow, I'm glad my kidsare grown! I think sometimes older guys don't know how to , or don't want to listen. They kind-of have an attitude like "I know what I want , life is too short to waste my time messin' around (listening to you?) ". And they may be a bit closed minded.


But truth is , younger guys can be every bit as self-absorbed, and then some. However , at least with a younger guy you have something Fine to look at and keep your ever enthralled gaze, while he prattles on and on - about himself.


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Isn't there a cougar thread around here somewhere?


 
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