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- April 9th, 2009, 07:32 am
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This could be a scam. The reference to tequila in my mind is used when pulling dating scams.





You ask someone on a date and they want a hearing from you.. i PERSONALLY HAVE been treated like a dog when starting to date again almost 4 years ago and I consider myself a


highly educated nondrinker, nonsmoking competent adult...The people of the state of Pennsylvania are well known for this type of dating scam. I wish I could meet a person who would love me and enjoy my company but beware in Pennsylvania the only people dating are scam artists.. It would be nice to go on a good old fashioned date with someone who loved me.. This is abuse...
- April 9th, 2009, 07:32 am
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id1909 wrote :

"....but beware in Pennsylvania the only people dating are scam artists.."






My SO is a scam artist ??!!





That's it...she's DONE !!
- April 9th, 2009, 08:26 am
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"....but beware in Pennsylvania the only people dating are scam artists.."








My SO is a scam artist ??!!





That's it...she's DONE !!
Awwwwwww. Don't be mad 'cause I dwank all the twequila.
- April 9th, 2009, 10:37 am
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- April 9th, 2009, 10:38 am
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id1909 wrote :

This could be a scam. The reference to tequila in my mind is used when pulling dating scams.





You ask someone on a date and they want a hearing from you.. i PERSONALLY HAVE been treated like a dog when starting to date again almost 4 years ago and I consider myself a


highly educated nondrinker, nonsmoking competent adult...The people of the state of Pennsylvania are well known for this type of dating scam. I wish I could meet a person who would love me and enjoy my company but beware in Pennsylvania the only people dating are scam artists.. It would be nice to go on a good old fashioned date with someone who loved me.. This is abuse...
Dear Id,


Welcome to eHa. I'm not sure how long I've been here, but I must say that I enjoy it, (especially when I stay away from politics and sometimes dating). Initially I was instinctually suspicious and sometimes even careful. Then as I got into reading some of the posts I found myself being super critical and moralizing. Then slowly over time, I became comfortable and my expectations became realistic and now my house is becoming more organized. I don't know what Freud would say about all this, but I don't let the turkeys get me down. Good luck.


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- April 9th, 2009, 11:59 am
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Modded again....is it something I said?
- April 9th, 2009, 12:34 pm
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id1909 wrote :

This could be a scam. The reference to tequila in my mind is used when pulling dating scams.





You ask someone on a date and they want a hearing from you.. i PERSONALLY HAVE been treated like a dog when starting to date again almost 4 years ago and I consider myself a


highly educated nondrinker, nonsmoking competent adult...The people of the state of Pennsylvania are well known for this type of dating scam. I wish I could meet a person who would love me and enjoy my company but beware in Pennsylvania the only people dating are scam artists.. It would be nice to go on a good old fashioned date with someone who loved me.. This is abuse...
sit girl, good girl, that's my baby, give daddy a big kiss. Oh your such a sweetie, want a cookie?








I just don't understand why you were threatened by the tequila if you don't drink, after all the tequila was Tom's rejection, and maybe when you go curl up in the corner holding a bottle of tequila (youi don't have to drink it) the new guys that happen along won't think of you like a dog but as a cute little seniorita who needs a friend, can't hurt. I'm from New York and we don't have any scams here, dating or otherwise, we're just like Quakers. I eat their oats (for my cholesterol).





Good luck with your search, I'm sure the guys in PA can't be all bad (your not in Philly are you?)


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- April 9th, 2009, 04:41 pm
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