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Can you trust anyone from South Africa or are they all scammers.











- April 4th, 2009, 10:57 am
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Trust your instincts
- April 4th, 2009, 11:00 am
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Definitely trust your instincts. Africans are people just like us Westerners, so try not to base your decisions on stereotypes and misinformation. At the same time, listen to your gut. Best of luck!
- April 4th, 2009, 11:02 am
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angel, wrote :

Can you trust anyone from South Africa or are they all scammers.










I think everyone is entitled to a chance. I have many friends from South Africa and they are all kindhearted and honest people.


I will assume that the people you speak of are still in SA and are showing interest in you online... as with all online situations... we need to exercise healthy caution, since there is really no way of knowing what they are truly about until you get to meet them in their home element.


- April 4th, 2009, 11:04 am
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<--------Read the ......in her own words.............


Angel, Proceed with caution like anything else online
- April 4th, 2009, 11:46 am
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Can't you find someone from the US?





There are so many scams and men preying on western women, why risk it? It's like "can I pet a shark?". Sure, maybe, but why try?
- April 4th, 2009, 12:24 pm
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simpletonHeart70 wrote :

Can't you find someone from the US?





There are so many scams and men preying on western women, why risk it? It's like "can I pet a shark?". Sure, maybe, but why try?
That pretty much sums it up.
- April 4th, 2009, 01:50 pm
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lmaowhat kinda topic is this?
- April 4th, 2009, 03:12 pm
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It's not just South Africa. Check the message box on my profile page. eH took her profile down but you'll get the idea.
- April 4th, 2009, 04:27 pm
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I like just about all the South Africans I have met. Only one I didn't like. None of them wrote me messages like the one you received however.
- April 4th, 2009, 06:21 pm
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