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An honest mistake will usually be forgiven; one that comes from insensitivity or selfishness may not be. Look out for these common dating mistakes men make!
- March 31st, 2009, 02:40 pm
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Hi my name is idamis and i already have few matches but the problem is that you said that ihave until sunday to be comunicate whit them and that not thruth. I have a match name jesus from miami fl, and i cant read hes answers to my questions because i have to paid, that not fair when the promotion to be contact FREE is until sunday BUY GUYS , and thank you very much.
- March 31st, 2009, 02:42 pm
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Women make some of these mistakes too.





Why do you guys at eH keep starting these kinds of threads?
- March 31st, 2009, 02:47 pm
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Tweet...really??? There must be hundreds ofarticles on EH started by staff that are directed at us women and what to wear, say, do....all helpful things...but none-the-less...towards us..this is one of the firstarticles towards a man that I have seen...
- March 31st, 2009, 03:30 pm
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Ingytravel wrote :

Tweet...really??? There must be hundreds ofarticles on EH started by staff that are directed at us women and what to wear, say, do....all helpful things...but none-the-less...towards us..this is one of the firstarticles towards a man that I have seen...
The eH articles focusing toward women generally talk about what women should do. The articles focus on men generally discuss what we're not doing. The tone of these types of articles is different. I think the articles toward men take this slant because we are in essence "interviewing for a job" when approaching a woman. The pressure is always on the person being interviewed, and thus that person tends to "make more mistakes." I think it is a given that most women only need to "show up" to get interest from men, whereas for men this is not enough.
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Ahhh..ok...maybe since I've posted tons..but only been here about a month..I've only seen lots of the articles towards women and this was the first one I saw...thanks for popping in T.... Have a drink with an umbrella for me
- March 31st, 2009, 03:36 pm
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I agree that both can make the same mistakes.
- March 31st, 2009, 03:43 pm
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Ingytravel wrote :

Ahhh..ok...maybe since I've posted tons..but only been here about a month..I've only seen lots of the articles towards women and this was the first one I saw...thanks for popping in T.... Have a drink with an umbrella for me
I've had one too many already, lol.
- March 31st, 2009, 03:45 pm
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tbesq wrote :


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Tweet...really??? There must be hundreds ofarticles on EH started by staff that are directed at us women and what to wear, say, do....all helpful things...but none-the-less...towards us..this is one of the firstarticles towards a man that I have seen...


The eH articles focusing toward women generally talk about what women should do. The articles focus on men generally discuss what we're not doing. The tone of these types of articles is different. I think the articles toward men take this slant because we are in essence "interviewing for a job" when approaching a woman. The pressure is always on the person being interviewed, and thus that person tends to "make more mistakes." I think it is a given that most women only need to "show up" to get interest from men, whereas for men this is not enough.


Didn't Harrison Ford say so in Six Days and Seven Nights? Wasn't that a documentary on how to get a man? Be obtuse, biotchy, high-maintenance but get stranded on a desert island with him long enough that he gets to see that you actually do have a heart underneath that shrewish, scrawny, girl-loving chest?


Oh my goodness....I think I've been doing this all wrong.
- March 31st, 2009, 03:55 pm
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :

tbesq wrote :


Ingytravel wrote :


Tweet...really??? There must be hundreds ofarticles on EH started by staff that are directed at us women and what to wear, say, do....all helpful things...but none-the-less...towards us..this is one of the firstarticles towards a man that I have seen...


The eH articles focusing toward women generally talk about what women should do. The articles focus on men generally discuss what we're not doing. The tone of these types of articles is different. I think the articles toward men take this slant because we are in essence "interviewing for a job" when approaching a woman. The pressure is always on the person being interviewed, and thus that person tends to "make more mistakes." I think it is a given that most women only need to "show up" to get interest from men, whereas for men this is not enough.


Didn't Harrison Ford say so in Six Days and Seven Nights? Wasn't that a documentary on how to get a man? Be obtuse, biotchy, high-maintenance but get stranded on a desert island with him long enough that he gets to see that you actually do have a heart underneath that shrewish, scrawny, girl-loving chest?


Oh my goodness....I think I've been doing this all wrong.
Good memory LBMM, he did say that to Anne Heche, and it is pretty true (so long as you're attractive). But I wouldn't want Anne Heche, that woman is missing some chunks out of her brain; good actress though
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