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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #31  March 29,2009, 4:38pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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glassonlyhalffull_fillit,554360 wrote :

I would love to have my matches post here, as well, it wouldn't bother me a bit. Who knows, maybe some have and I just don't know it!


Imaginea match posting here, FINALLY some insight as to how they think about some issues. Their advice to OP's would give me some valuable information about them. It would cut down my time exchanging emails with them, (refer my post on Lucky's thread under using eH) *big sigh* Refer to another thread "Has eHa men...." as well.


Have I suggested it to any? No Would I consider it? You betcha!
I too would love to have a match or date post on this site. I think I could learnquite a bitabout them.
 
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considering that my friends know I say what I think and consequences be darned, I have invited both friends and "possibles" here. When I was active on EH there was an open invite on my profile to come here if they wanted to see how I thought/feel/believe on things. It's me, and if they want to get to know ME they'll soon see the way I am, right???
 
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jayjay,554362 wrote :

glassonlyhalffull_fillit,554360 wrote :


I would love to have my matches post here, as well, it wouldn't bother me a bit. Who knows, maybe some have and I just don't know it!


Imaginea match posting here, FINALLY some insight as to how they think about some issues. Their advice to OP's would give me some valuable information about them. It would cut down my time exchanging emails with them, (refer my post on Lucky's thread under using eH) *big sigh* Refer to another thread "Has eHa men...." as well.


Have I suggested it to any? No Would I consider it? You betcha!


I too would love to have a match or date post on this site. I think I could learnquite a bitabout them.
Hear, hear.
 
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noseyparker,554361 wrote :

I am positive I do not have what the guys here are looking for.
Not sure I’ve seen you be wrong before. Lots of guys here, likely with all sorts of desires, no?
 
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D_Lion,554389 wrote :


noseyparker,554361 wrote :


I am positive I do not have what the guys here are looking for.


Not sure I’ve seen you be wrong before. Lots of guys here, likely with all sorts of desires, no?


That was a general comment. I grant you, there could be exceptions. Don't get me wrong, I'm not pining after anyone...It was just an observation, based on the comments I read here.
 
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noseyparker,554361 wrote :

PY,554324 wrote :


I was actually going to post this today but Jayjay beat me to it.....


My question was slightly from different angle though...what would you think if you've been communicating with a few people from the board, and one day you got matched with one of them through EH?


I've never thought of that...


I agree with Bigfincat..


I think they would close the match and move on. I am positive I do not have what the guys here are looking for.
You rock, Nosey. If I was a guy, I'd date ya, lol.
 
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jayjay, wrote :

We all enjoy reading and posting on this site. Something I recently thought of is the possibility of telling someone else, such as someone we're dating, about this site and even inviting them to participate if they're interested.


So...would you tell someone you're dating to check out this site? Why or why not? Also, I'd assume either you'd tell them what your screenname is or else they'd be able to figure it out.
Nope, sometimes you just need a place to go to to vent or seek advice.
 
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jayjay,554284 wrote :

So...if you don't see any reason not to....have you actually done so and invited someone? I ask because I haven't seen any posts by people commenting on how they came to this site because they're dating someone already using the site.
I think I wouldn't volunteer that I post here on a first date, but I would say so if asked and might mention it later. I don't reveal a lot of personal details here, and I certainly don't discuss matches with enough information for them to be identified.


The reason why I wouldn't volunteer this info at first is because I might want to pose a question about my OC or first couple of dates with a match. In that case, I wouldn't want him to know for sure that I am seeking opinions about him specifically--but I guess you never know who's watching.


I have told some single friends I am on here, and I have suggested this site to my ex-husband. I think he could benefit from reading the discussions as much as I do, if not more. I am using a photo of our cat as my avatar, so I have challenged him to find me, but he is not interested in joining.
 
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MelinCali,554619 wrote :

I have suggested this site to my ex-husband. I think he could benefit from reading the discussions as much as I do, if not more. I am using a photo of our cat as my avatar, so I have challenged him to find me, but he is not interested in joining.
Maybe he has and is keeping secret … would that be cool, or creepy?
 
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Like a few others, I'm on the fence with this issue. I might let people know the site exists. My screenname is an abbreviated form of my first name, and my picture is attached, so it'd be pretty obvious who I am. My views on most things I'd be totally fine having my SO see. It's just that if I was questioning the type of relationship I wanted, or something about our relationship, I'm not sure I'd want him to see it. Not that it would necessarily be something bad, but I don't know. Sort of like the thread the other day about how good is good enough? Do you want your SO to know that you only think he's a 93% match and not a 100% match? Even though 93% is still darn good? I don't know.
 
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