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For day-to-day harmony with another person, you can't beat kindness. Find out why the nice guy will prevail in dating and relationships.
- March 18th, 2009, 09:07 am
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ugh, how about anything but the phrase ”nice guy“?
- March 18th, 2009, 07:50 pm
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Remind me what the 20 page thread last week concluded?
- March 18th, 2009, 07:52 pm
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D_Lion wrote :


Remind me what the 20 page thread last week concluded?


It reminded me that people make up their own definitionsfor a word, when there is really only one. This is only thingIwill post in this thread.


- March 18th, 2009, 07:58 pm
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choiceweb0pen0 wrote :

ugh, how about anything but the phrase ”nice guy“?
How about don't underestimate the gr8guy?
- March 18th, 2009, 08:08 pm
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D_Lion wrote :


Remind me what the 20 page thread last week concluded?


That 'nice guys' aren't nice. They are as toxic (sometimes more so) than the jerks. It's like a wolf in sheep's clothing.


Women are better off with good men.


Luckily for the nice guy, he has the potential to grow up to be a good man if he examines his motives and develops a solid sense of self and real integrity.


I think that about sums it up.
- March 18th, 2009, 08:26 pm
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peg099 wrote :

D_Lion wrote :


Remind me what the 20 page thread last week concluded?


That 'nice guys' aren't nice. They are as toxic (sometimes more so) than the jerks. It's like a wolf in sheep's clothing.


Women are better off with good men.


Luckily for the nice guy, he has the potential to grow up to be a good man if he examines his motives and develops a solid sense of self and real integrity.


I think that about sums it up.
Yes, summed up nicely, so no need for another 20 pages plus of "No More Mr. Nice Guy", right?


- March 18th, 2009, 08:32 pm
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yoga_gal wrote :

peg099 wrote :


D_Lion wrote :


Remind me what the 20 page thread last week concluded?


That 'nice guys' aren't nice. They are as toxic (sometimes more so) than the jerks. It's like a wolf in sheep's clothing.


Women are better off with good men.


Luckily for the nice guy, he has the potential to grow up to be a good man if he examines his motives and develops a solid sense of self and real integrity.


I think that about sums it up.


Yes, summed up nicely, so no need for another 20 pages plus of "No More Mr. Nice Guy", right?

+1. Peg rules.
- March 18th, 2009, 08:36 pm
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I seriously question any article suggesting you observe how your date treats family members on a date!!! Why would anyone be BRINGING family members on a date with them????
- March 18th, 2009, 08:44 pm
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I seriously question any article suggesting you observe how your date treats family members on a date!!! Why would anyone be BRINGING family members on a date with them????
So they have someone to talk to if their date is boring?


Or, no driver’s license.
- March 18th, 2009, 08:45 pm
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