6 Signs He May be the Cheating Kind

6 Signs He May be the Cheating Kind

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synchrona is offline synchrona Post #61  February 4,2010, 7:10pm
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advicenuthakki wrote :
you guys are putting unnecessary questions in people minds and relationship rather to talk or give advice on how to get relationship better. The information above is your prospective so do not assume or give general advice where people doubt there spouse unnecessarily and get into trouble. if you like to do good for people please talk or advice onpositive side orhow they can improve in relationships. Some peoples life will change because they think media is right advice, so we request to you to see on positive side like great books"five love languages,Men are from Mars and Women are from venus and His needs Her needs". Thank you.
Hmmmm,,,,I kinda agree,,,,,BUT,,,,,could it be that I'm in denial
All I know is that once I accepted and he accepted that he had cheated and lied,,,,I gained respect
What really hurt was what his guilt did,,,he withdrew and resented me for ,,ahem,,,,being the 'cause' of his guilt
We're friends,,,but I don't trust him re a relationship
I have to be the one and only

BUT?????
I used to have horses and they would try to get to the greener grass on the other side of the fence when their own pasture was depleted
 
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redhair0317 is offline redhair0317 Post #62  February 10,2010, 11:18am
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Communication is key to any relationship and true understanding leaves no room for doubt. Also a strong foundation has to be made and that means not forgetting the basics.
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When there is a disagreement both partners need to come together after first calming down, and allow each person to express their side of the story. Then try this execrise: When speaking to your partner speak clearly and not out of anger and when you've said everything then your partner should be able to say what you said word for word and vice versa The reason for this execerise is that it gives both partners a chance  to be heard and you are talking to each other and not past each other.
 
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Just another idiotic-gender biased article by ehA.
 
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mrflyer is offline mrflyer Post #64  February 10,2010, 11:44am
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Articles like this drive me nuts, because this is bound to put some innocent guys in trouble.

Sometimes people really are working late at office or bring you flowers for no particular reason. And some men have lots of female friends, which doesn't mean they are going to bed together.

For that matter, many gay men have lots of female friends, so maybe that's an indicator that he's gay rather than cheating. See how silly this gets?

How about some better clues he may be cheating, like you found actual evidence? Or he suddenly seems distant for no reason?
 
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My husband is always working on the weekend I feel like it's someone that he been cheating with at work because he comes home like he is so confuse about coming home something just not working right far as us being married its a waste I have told him that we can do something different in our life to turn it around and make it better. Because I got weak and had affair with some one that was very young like 26yrs old I didn't feel love from my husband at all he very much mental abuse me all the time it was never nothing I did right. I always been a hard work put him first in my life no matter what. But in this affair that I had was not long just friends but one thing turn in to another and it got out of hand. But at the end of this I got use because this guy photograph everything we did expose me to the world andI had to go to law enforcement.
 
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