6 Signs He May be the Cheating Kind

6 Signs He May be the Cheating Kind

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kelliemaree is offline kelliemaree Post #51  May 15,2009, 6:30am
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I am under the suspision that my fiance is cheating, I had a baby 6 months ago and gained 27Kgs during my pregnancy, i hvae lost 13Kgs of this but have felt that my fiance has become more distant and does not seem to want to be intimate with me he is always taking his phone everywhere he goes and walks far away when talking he  i have looked at his call history and found a couple of numbers that are odd and he disappears for long periods of time I dont know what to think?
 
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blueshoe is offline blueshoe Post #52  July 7,2009, 11:59pm
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I work in healthcare and there are a number of men in my dept that are like this and my co-workers mostly women seem to fawn over guys like this. I'm not sure why that is. Anybody have any thoughts?

In all seriousness they are usually sex harassment 101 type guys yet alot of the ladies love them.
 
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How about how to tell if SHE is cheating on you!
 
1   Starts going to college and becomes obsessed with loosing
     weight after she had been a rolling cow for several years.
 
2. Obsessed with her hair and make-up.
 
3. Obsessed with buying black clothes!
 
4. When you have sex, she ask, “Are you done? Well get off!!!”
and statements like, “Well, I don’t want to so I am just going                                                           to lay here, you can go ahead!
 
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Okay, it is time for women and men to tell the truth about this subject. The surveys where they usually show that men cheat more than women? Bull, When I was single I had far more sexual encounters with married, divorced and separated women than I had with single women and I was not searching the married women out, THEY were looking for it!
 
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You are missing ONE very important because that happened to me. Everytime the cheater's phones rings or a text messange got in from his or her affaire, inmediately he or her share "who was that text from" like is from my syster, or a common friend. The cheater complains about how tired she or he is about geting so many messages from this unsuspectable person and mention it continously.
 
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An article in the New York Times within the past few weeks described recent research (professional researches using survey data) which found about 10% of people admitting infidelity within the prior year, and 20% at any time.
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We are all working on the erroneous assumption that we share the same definition of cheating. So, what exactly is cheating? I define cheating as withholding something from someone that they are entitled to. For example, you owe the customer $3.00 in change and you give that customer $2.00 in change. That's cheating!!! Now, when it comes to Man v. Woman, if I am taking another woman to lunch, and MY SPOUSE OR "FIRST-LADY" and I were not committed for lunch that day, time or moment then that is not cheating. Even if I were in a relationship and we had an agreement how far each of us could go, then as long as I didn't exceed my agreed upon limit, then that would not be cheating. The problem lies in the fact that we very seldom spell-out in advance what the limits are in our relationship until someone is disappointed. Then we end what could have been a "beautiful relationship" for failure to properly communicate. I got caught "cheating" but I don't believe that I was really cheating. HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!!!!!
 
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What is "cheating?" From the posts it seem it is only the soap opera definition of sexual intercourse with other than partner/spouse. Really? A definition of a lie is planting "a false belief planted in the mind of another." I'm really doubting that many of the so called aggrieved kinda don't know. They may just wish they were "the one" but really know they are not. And as for this is a guy has lots of female friends - This is so lame. My female friends would be the first and most critical if they thought I was "cheating" on my partner. My mates - not so much.
 
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iLovemyBByKJ is offline iLovemyBByKJ Post #60  August 23,2009, 7:12pm
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my baby's daddy told me he wasn't really cheating because it was just through the internet, and its not like "it was every going to happen anyway". yah, that's a load of bull if ya ask me! anyone who has to justify their mistake definitely has issues. Based on my experience, once a cheater, almost, always a cheater or a liar. Guys that don't think they are really cheating, when they are, are the ones that only care for themselves because they put your feelings aside to put their own feelings first. UNFORTUNATELY. that's why, he's just my baby's daddy, and no longer my life partner. talk about a turnoff
 
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