Advice and Support from Thousands of Users Just Like You

Dating First-date jitters? Hoping for a second date? Moving on to a full blown relationship? Share your journey and advice here.

Reply
Page 6 of 7 « First 4 5 6 7
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
kelliemaree kelliemaree is offline
kelliemaree's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: May 2009

Posts: 2

See profile

I am under the suspision that my fiance is cheating, I had a baby 6 months ago and gained 27Kgs during my pregnancy, i hvae lost 13Kgs of this but have felt that my fiance has become more distant and does not seem to want to be intimate with me he is always taking his phone everywhere he goes and walks far away when talking he  i have looked at his call history and found a couple of numbers that are odd and he disappears for long periods of time I dont know what to think?

- May 15th, 2009, 07:30 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#51   Reply With Quote
blueshoe blueshoe is offline
blueshoe's Avatar

blueshoe is happy.

Pacesetter

Join Date: Dec 2007

Posts: 307

See profile

I work in healthcare and there are a number of men in my dept that are like this and my co-workers mostly women seem to fawn over guys like this. I'm not sure why that is. Anybody have any thoughts?

In all seriousness they are usually sex harassment 101 type guys yet alot of the ladies love them.
- July 8th, 2009, 12:59 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#52   Reply With Quote
foxone foxone is offline
foxone's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: Jul 2009

Posts: 3

See profile

How about how to tell if SHE is cheating on you!


 


1   Starts going to college and becomes obsessed with loosing


     weight after she had been a rolling cow for several years.


 


2. Obsessed with her hair and make-up.


 


3. Obsessed with buying black clothes!


 


4. When you have sex, she ask, “Are you done? Well get off!!!”


and statements like, “Well, I don’t want to so I am just going                                                           to lay here, you can go ahead!

- July 26th, 2009, 04:48 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#53   Reply With Quote
foxone foxone is offline
foxone's Avatar

Newbie

Join Date: Jul 2009

Posts: 3

See profile

Okay, it is time for women and men to tell the truth about this subject. The surveys where they usually show that men cheat more than women? Bull, When I was single I had far more sexual encounters with married, divorced and separated women than I had with single women and I was not searching the married women out, THEY were looking for it!
- July 26th, 2009, 05:56 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#54   Reply With Quote
plantaxions plantaxions is offline
plantaxions's Avatar

Join Date: Jul 2009

Posts: 1

See profile

You are missing ONE very important because that happened to me. Everytime the cheater's phones rings or a text messange got in from his or her affaire, inmediately he or her share "who was that text from" like is from my syster, or a common friend. The cheater complains about how tired she or he is about geting so many messages from this unsuspectable person and mention it continously.
- July 26th, 2009, 06:06 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#55   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

D_Lion D_Lion is offline
D_Lion's Avatar

D_Lion - Ladies want to wring my neck - you have been warned!

Sage

Join Date: Aug 2008

Posts: 14,302

See profile

An article in the New York Times within the past few weeks described recent research (professional researches using survey data) which found about 10% of people admitting infidelity within the prior year, and 20% at any time.

Historically, there has been higher rates of admitted infidelity among men than women, but that gap is narrowing, and appears nearly gone for younger people.
- July 26th, 2009, 06:09 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#56   Reply With Quote
LCIII LCIII is offline
LCIII's Avatar

Join Date: Jul 2009

Posts: 1

See profile

We are all working on the erroneous assumption that we share the same definition of cheating. So, what exactly is cheating? I define cheating as withholding something from someone that they are entitled to. For example, you owe the customer $3.00 in change and you give that customer $2.00 in change. That's cheating!!! Now, when it comes to Man v. Woman, if I am taking another woman to lunch, and MY SPOUSE OR "FIRST-LADY" and I were not committed for lunch that day, time or moment then that is not cheating. Even if I were in a relationship and we had an agreement how far each of us could go, then as long as I didn't exceed my agreed upon limit, then that would not be cheating. The problem lies in the fact that we very seldom spell-out in advance what the limits are in our relationship until someone is disappointed. Then we end what could have been a "beautiful relationship" for failure to properly communicate. I got caught "cheating" but I don't believe that I was really cheating. HAVE A GREAT DAY!!!!!!!
- July 26th, 2009, 06:48 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#57   Reply With Quote
D_Lion D_Lion is offline
D_Lion's Avatar

D_Lion - Ladies want to wring my neck - you have been warned!

Sage

Join Date: Aug 2008

Posts: 14,302

See profile

LCIII,

This is an interesting post – one that could make for a new thread.

What is your basis for viewing a person as being “entitled” to anything?
- July 27th, 2009, 05:54 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#58   Reply With Quote
Fleuellen Fleuellen is offline
Fleuellen's Avatar

Enthusiast

Join Date: Jul 2009

Posts: 789

See profile

What is "cheating?" From the posts it seem it is only the soap opera definition of sexual intercourse with other than partner/spouse. Really? A definition of a lie is planting "a false belief planted in the mind of another." I'm really doubting that many of the so called aggrieved kinda don't know. They may just wish they were "the one" but really know they are not. And as for this is a guy has lots of female friends - This is so lame. My female friends would be the first and most critical if they thought I was "cheating" on my partner. My mates - not so much.
- July 29th, 2009, 08:34 am
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#59   Reply With Quote
iLovemyBByKJ iLovemyBByKJ is offline
iLovemyBByKJ's Avatar

Join Date: Aug 2009

Posts: 1

See profile

my baby's daddy told me he wasn't really cheating because it was just through the internet, and its not like "it was every going to happen anyway". yah, that's a load of bull if ya ask me! anyone who has to justify their mistake definitely has issues. Based on my experience, once a cheater, almost, always a cheater or a liar. Guys that don't think they are really cheating, when they are, are the ones that only care for themselves because they put your feelings aside to put their own feelings first. UNFORTUNATELY. that's why, he's just my baby's daddy, and no longer my life partner. talk about a turnoff

- August 23rd, 2009, 08:12 pm
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!Share on Facebook

#60   Reply With Quote

ADVERTISEMENT

Reply
Page 6 of 7 « First 4 5 6 7

Bookmarks

« I need a man's opinion... | Array | Four rules for dating, posting, and life »
Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“Reading these boards leads me to the conclusion that the primary problem with online dating is that it allows people way too much time to think, about way too much, and, generally speaking, they just ... ” – StuckOnYou

Join the “Too much thinking going on here...” discussion

“1 - The nature of photos is deceiving. I've met women who don't look quite as good as their photos and some women that must not be photogenic because in person they look much better. 2 - When online ... ” – MisterArrogant

Join the “What lessons have you learned from online dating?” discussion

“ Really, Gr8Guy? You'd really think that any woman who actually wants sex is promiscuous????? Sounds like a virgin/whore complex, honestly.” – superbeetle

Join the “Is there ever a misunderstanding???” discussion

“ Five stars!” – PY_2

Join the “Where is my queen charming?” discussion

“As someone who very recently ended my engagement to a man with a very dark past, which contains some of the things your fiancee has in her's - ie/ drug use and more), I am seeing red flags all over ... ” – lindseyk

Join the “Abusive relationship ?” discussion

“ So, what gives, Dating experts? Where am I going wrong? Please advise. It's not clear what actions you're talking, so it's really hard to answer. It doesn't matter how wonderful you are if you ... ” – mrflyer

Join the “Really need some advice” discussion

“ True- if that happened, half the forum threads would disappear.” – mrflyer

Join the “SHOULD I CALL HIM” discussion

“ It is starting to scare me that we are agreeing again but this is exactly right.” – Can_I_just_be_Jo

Join the “Dating when you are busy” discussion



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:28 am.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.3.0