6 Signs He May be the Cheating Kind

6 Signs He May be the Cheating Kind

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Roscoethe1st is offline Roscoethe1st Post #31  April 5,2009, 12:28am
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Why is it always, ways HE may be cheating. I seem to remember a She who was cheating.
 
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poohbear2009 is offline poohbear2009 Post #32  April 5,2009, 2:20am
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I agree with been there done that. I have a sister who cheats on all her boyfriends and her last husband. My sister got angry with me because me, her, my niece and her ex-husband who she cheated o all went to see my niece in a beauty pagent. Then wanted to know if I was going to his house after we got home. She is a bit-- and want nothing to do will her. I also work late and lots of crazy hours because of my job position but just because I am working does not mean that I am out doing anything other then work. I think that most men don't stand a chance unless they find an honest and trustworthy women. Good luck men. I trust you!!!!
 
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MissOliver is offline MissOliver Post #33  April 5,2009, 8:30am
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reading this kind of hurt because I'm in a relationship now where all 6 of those things are happening! It's ridiculous because I haven't been in a relationship yet WHERE I HAVE NOT been cheated on! I Just want to know what its like to be happy, wanted, needed, but most of all LOVED is that too much to ask for? Really?!? But i know what my problem is, and that's the kind of men I date! Young BLACK men between the ages of 23-29 and honestly, as a black woman, I can't help but feel like MOST black men really are DOGS! EVEN the older ones!!!! So the saying, "age is nothing but a number" really fits well with them!
 
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I love men. I love the way you have the freedom to do whatever!!!! I wish I were a man because I would make more money!!!! Ha, for the ones who give the gifts great just make sure your receiving the same from your mate. I don’t cheat...Why? Because I have learned to treat a man with respect and to cherish a "Good" one. Its hard to find a mate and if you never look deep down at yourself you will always pick the wrong gal or fella!!! I will never give up on trying to find my mate.... Oh and most important I have leaned not to pick the "CHEATING" man....Now...in 2009 I am on a "Dating Break" to become a better person,get healthly,relocate to Florida, start my own business,and to find my mate!!!!
 
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angelface1952 is offline angelface1952 Post #35  April 5,2009, 10:04am
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He tells you he does not want to commit or says he's got confused feelings and doesn't know if he loves you. Keeps his cell phone on vibrate and suddenly has to use the mensroom or goes out for a cigarett or just excuses himself from the group several times during the date. Changes his story when trying to make excuses why he's late or had to cancell the date.
 
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Seems to me, the non-cheater would be... well, we know how he'd act and talk of this article. Not saying you guys don't have a right to your feelings. Of course you do!! But the article does say 15% of women too - and women do work these days, eh?!


Ifany person is sincere and really loves his/her mate - this articlecertainly wouldn't threaten them...
 
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its very true, people cheat for many reason, some good and bad, bottom line, they are not getting "something" from home, not neccesarily sex but, defitnately emotional needs, and they may lack that from their spouse or boyfriend. I admit, I have cheated, yes...felt bad and guilty, out of the SIX reasons, as a cheater, I would say I'm at work, and also give that extra love and affection to my husband. The guilt starts to eat you up and you then realize that you married this person for a reason and come to realization that not every one is perfect. I did feel bad and am not seeing my friend anymore, who was married as well. We are great friends but, both agreed that we did share a special love relationship, but nothing can come close to loosing our families. We both have kids and could not risk it any longer.
 
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I nursed my husband back to health, he had two bouts of cancer and depression, tried to take his life, and when he got better and I became depressed and went through menopose that is when he started cheating on me. It is so very devestating when you try to take care of your sick husband and then in the end he walk out on you because its your turn to have a problem. I sure hope as hell that the Karma come back to get him in a HUGE way.
 
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its very nice to know that not all men have a cheating heart, to be truly honest takes guts.
 
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pez1971,564801 wrote :

its very nice to know that not all men have a cheating heart , to be truly honest takes guts.
Write it down, ladies. You know it's true as well as I do.


I would never see myself as a cheating man, ever . It's just not right to me; I wouldn't devote myself to a girl I loved only to give that same special devotion to another woman. It's not fair to her, or to the other woman.


Maybe I was raised better than other men. Maybe I just don't fit in with the 'manly macho jerk' aesthetic. Maybe I'm an alien. But what I feel is true, and no stupid article will change the devotion I would have for any girl.


Assuming I will ever find a girl to devote myself to . . . . .
 
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