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Hmmmmmm.............How about a similar article for signs SHE may be cheating? I hardly believe that a man cheating is worse than if a woman does it, and women do it about as often too!
I am a woman and I completely agree with you. It doesn't matter if its a woman who cheats or a man, It's just as bad. I read all of the signs of cheating men and I believe the signs are the same for a women. I am a women who has cheated; I won't say why, but the signs were exactly the same for me. I really believe that reasons women cheat are the same as why a men cheat.
- March 22nd, 2009, 06:43 pm
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wow this is so true ...because I am that man. and yes items number 2 ,3 and 5 are all me and the other items are not what i have been doing at all but again, the others are dead on. Cheating as you call it sounds so disloyal but in some rare situations it isreally needed just no choice and leaving isnt an option. I have even clearly explained that is 2 major issues dont get any attension that i was going to seek outother compainonship she exnored me and so 2 months latter i am that Cheater. moral of the storydon't become complacant in your relationship or marragenever ignore your matesissues and dont rely on because you both made somepromises or I do's 10 years ago that you can take your relationship for granted
- March 22nd, 2009, 08:07 pm
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justineric wrote :

just remember that these "signs " relate to either sex. If she's cheating, the symptoms are similar but even more pronounced( ie a cheating man will sleep with both his mistress and his current, where most women will not in the same day or even week). she buys new clothes, changes her hair style( remember she used to do that for you?). she talks about how its only a friend but won't get into details about who, where etc. two way street...
Damnnn..... That's soooooooooooo trueeeeeeeeeeee..... I just broke up with her.... please more tips on this.... I want to confirm all this.... I've already given her a chance before as i really do love her... Please, please, pleasejustineric, more tips, more tips more tips pleaseeee..
- March 30th, 2009, 12:29 am
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kantut wrote :
The less timid [men] will bed every available female at the first opportunity. It's what men do.
This is a common misconception. Some men are not picky about sex partners,and those are the ones you don't want.
- March 30th, 2009, 12:57 am
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Wow! Some women are the same way!
- March 30th, 2009, 06:36 am
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Exactly.That's why I get upset whenever peopleperpetuatebigoted gender stereotypes.
- April 2nd, 2009, 08:31 am
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Another sign he may be cheating is this: He always root for the "other woman" on TV shows. My ex-husband, while he was still my husband, suddenly started roaring with laughter and clapping his hands and whooping it up whenever a "girlfriend" dissed a wife on one of those Jerry-Springer-type shows and in other dramatic or sit-com shows, to the point of embarrassment if other people were around, and belittled my hurt feelings. You're right.....he was cheating. I've heard of this from many other women who also couldn't understand their husbands' hurtful behavior and who later found out the jerks were cheating. In all fairness, this happens with cheating wives also, but in far lesser numbers.
- April 3rd, 2009, 05:41 am
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this is crap... in these economic times more and more people are going the extra mile and working longer and harder just to keep their jobs and stay ahead of the next guy. Also just because you're being too nice that's a load of b.s. If women look at this article and have a hard time believing that a man is compensating too much because he's a cheater, then I feel real sorry for them. They just haven't met the right guy that will treat them the way they should be treated
- April 3rd, 2009, 06:26 am
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So where's the one on women...I could write a book on it....Iv'e NEVER cheated, I won't say it hasn't crossed my mind..it crosses almost evrone's mind at some point..AND I've always found that to be a despicable thing to do, & yet I've always been the one who was cheated on. When asking them point blank they (women) started accusing me to get the subject and attention off of them and try to find some kind of fault with me...My brother even cheated on his last ex-girlfriend and accused her of cheating on him with me and THEN had the audacity to ask me if I was with his gf...right after addmitting to me that he cheated on her andhad givenme all the details of it, and then said he'd beat me if he ever found out I was with his gf....nice brother-huh? He's cheated on his last ex gf with the woman he's now married to who was cheating on her husband with him..now he's cheating on her too with a co-worker. I've moved out of state & I won't invite him to my wedding cause IKNOW he'll try to bed down with my fiance' the first chance he gets.
- April 3rd, 2009, 09:48 am
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This is one of the times where being a man sucks. We're always the most likely to cheat just because we're men. I hate it! It's unfair, and it's insulting to those who don't cheat and never will.


And if any women out there are prepared to say that all men cheat, you're dead wrong. I would slit my wrists before betraying a girl I loved, and that's the truth!
- April 3rd, 2009, 12:51 pm
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