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and what about women in the subject heading ???oh I forgot - of course they don't cheat and this is written from a women' perspective - you should be commenting on "Is your partner the cheating kind".


Go on, give us a followup topic: Signs SHE is the cheating kind. Would you do it?
- March 18th, 2009, 12:26 am
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Some just have no idea on how to do those description. First and for most, they have lost someone dear to them. Secondly, some can not hold a conversation. Thirdly some are less fortunate than other when it comes to having needs, etc........ I think you know where I'm coming from. If critisizm starts here, maybe your the one that needs a change. People with disabilities find it hard to be in a relationship..... sorry but your not the only one with issues. If they can't keep themselves together, it just could be that they had seen some or even all six signs explained. Male and Female are two different beings. One can not feel without the other.
- March 18th, 2009, 12:30 am
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What a load of speculative rubbish!


Ive never cheated on someone , but i twice have had somone cheat on me! At the end of the day, you cant change that, its their descision to do it, can you live with it or not is up to you! Calling cheater is a sure way to end a relationship too!!!


Why would your partner want to cheat on you? (ask yourself that question) [although the answer may or may not lie with you!]





*An easy check for lots of extra work --> wheres the extra money?


*Dont let your friends mess with your love life! They might not have the full perspective! Simple just TALK to your partner!


*There is nothing wrong with having lots of friends from both sexes! All of one sex could be construed as gay?!





**Using facebook to speculate through deceitful reconnaissance,as suggested by 'Ginkitty75' below, is pathetic & extremely shallow!





my two cents............................
- March 18th, 2009, 01:28 am
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how sterio type! the addsare all ways he he he he but 15 % of women cheat (as stated)but where is there a she on there? neverever there is advice on this????
- March 18th, 2009, 06:17 am
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Ginkitty75 wrote :

I have a way to check a guy out to see if is a potential "cheater/Ladies man" just go on facebook and check out how many women he has as friends. If he has heaps of women as friends and these women have profile photos that look like wanna be models then that is a huge indicator that he is a flirt,man wh*re, call them what you like... this has never failed me!!
Wow... that is... incredibly unfair and judgmental. On Facebook, I have way more female friends than male friends, and the majority of my female friends are very attractive. Know what that says about me? It says that I'm a recent college graduate whowent to a university where 70% of the student population is female, entered a profession where 96% of the practicioners are female, was the only male in my class at graduate school, and am one of only three males working atthe local branch of mycompany.


I have another suggestion for what having a lot of female friends on Facebook might mean as well - perhaps it means that this is the kind of guy that women like to talk to and hang out with, something that would be a plus sign for a potential partner... at least, a potential partner that isn't the jealous, suspicious type.


I'm not trying to be overly negative here, I'm just stating that if you jump to conclusions, you're going to get some undesirable results.
- March 18th, 2009, 09:02 am
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zenus wrote :

What a load of speculative rubbish!


Ive never cheated on someone , but i twice have had somone cheat on me! At the end of the day, you cant change that, its their descision to do it, can you live with it or not is up to you! Calling cheater is a sure way to end a relationship too!!!


Why would your partner want to cheat on you? (ask yourself that question) [although the answer may or may not lie with you!]





*An easy check for lots of extra work --> wheres the extra money?


*Dont let your friends mess with your love life! They might not have the full perspective! Simple just TALK to your partner!


*There is nothing wrong with having lots of friends from both sexes! All of one sex could be construed as gay?!





**Using facebook to speculate through deceitful reconnaissance,as suggested by 'Ginkitty75' below, is pathetic & extremely shallow!





my two cents............................
I am not being deceitful by looking on a"social" networking website and if men stopped being pathetic and shallow then i would not need to do "research".
- March 19th, 2009, 04:06 am
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JohndB wrote :

Ginkitty75 wrote :


I have a way to check a guy out to see if is a potential "cheater/Ladies man" just go on facebook and check out how many women he has as friends. If he has heaps of women as friends and these women have profile photos that look like wanna be models then that is a huge indicator that he is a flirt,man wh*re, call them what you like... this has never failed me!!


Wow... that is... incredibly unfair and judgmental. On Facebook, I have way more female friends than male friends, and the majority of my female friends are very attractive. Know what that says about me? It says that I'm a recent college graduate whowent to a university where 70% of the student population is female, entered a profession where 96% of the practicioners are female, was the only male in my class at graduate school, and am one of only three males working atthe local branch of mycompany.


I have another suggestion for what having a lot of female friends on Facebook might mean as well - perhaps it means that this is the kind of guy that women like to talk to and hang out with, something that would be a plus sign for a potential partner... at least, a potential partner that isn't the jealous, suspicious type.


I'm not trying to be overly negative here, I'm just stating that if you jump to conclusions, you're going to get some undesirable results.
Well said John!
- March 19th, 2009, 04:44 am
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What is this place cosmoHarmony!
Ohh...that made me giggle!!
- March 19th, 2009, 07:13 am
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JohndB wrote :

Ginkitty75 wrote :


I have a way to check a guy out to see if is a potential "cheater/Ladies man" just go on facebook and check out how many women he has as friends. If he has heaps of women as friends and these women have profile photos that look like wanna be models then that is a huge indicator that he is a flirt,man wh*re, call them what you like... this has never failed me!!


Wow... that is... incredibly unfair and judgmental. On Facebook, I have way more female friends than male friends, and the majority of my female friends are very attractive. Know what that says about me? It says that I'm a recent college graduate whowent to a university where 70% of the student population is female, entered a profession where 96% of the practicioners are female, was the only male in my class at graduate school, and am one of only three males working atthe local branch of mycompany.


I have another suggestion for what having a lot of female friends on Facebook might mean as well - perhaps it means that this is the kind of guy that women like to talk to and hang out with, something that would be a plus sign for a potential partner... at least, a potential partner that isn't the jealous, suspicious type.


I'm not trying to be overly negative here, I'm just stating that if you jump to conclusions, you're going to get some undesirable results.
"unfair & judgmental" thereis so muchdouble standards with men! men are the most judgemental and unfair beings going. I have heard my partners male friends point outthe faults of girlswho arent stereotypical "glamours"!!!!I find that men who have gone to uni the biggest offenders!!!!! i am not jealous at all i have just had friends and myself experience that the guys that have cheated when you go and look at their facebook site they have and overwhelming number of women friends. And we have come to the conclusion that this is an "indicator" that these men are assholes! By the way I know of some men that screen potention girlfriends this way AND employers are checking out potential employees my space pages to see what sort of person they are trying to portray!
- March 19th, 2009, 08:33 pm
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Im a guy and i can sayThose 6 signs are very very accurate. Also, if a guy has far more female friends than male friends and always seems to make female friends easily and always "runs into them" on the street, unless he works with alot of females or something along that nature, he is definitely a cheater.
- March 22nd, 2009, 06:33 pm
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