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I made a goof, and I want to know how to rectify this. I was texting the person I am currently dating for about a little while earlier this evening. Then, I decided to call my brother. I picked her name off the cell instead of my brother's, and called the wrong number. She was asleep, andI panicked and hung up, and now I feel incredibly scared that I really messed things up. Should I get in touch with her tomorrow to apologize? What's the best way to handle this?
 
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HurrMark, wrote :
I was texting ... I made a goof .... What's the best way to handle this?





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Is okay to call if you can be funny (whether she answers the phone or not.)


Other choice is to ignore it. If she pipes up, say “oh yeah, I confuse you with my brother … care to remind me of the difference between men and women?”
 
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I would just say to her that you accidentally dialed her number and you're sorry if you woke her up.


If she is the kind of person who will make a big deal out of a mistake like that, do you reallywant to pursue a relationship with her? If it was me, I would only be interested in someone who was understanding and accepted my apology.


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MelinCali,525830 wrote :

I would just say to her that you accidentally dialed her number and you're sorry is you woker her up.


If she is the kind of person who will make a big deal out of a mistake like that, do you reallywant to pursue a relationship with her? If it was me, I would only be interested in someone who was understanding and accepted my apology.
I agree. She may just think it's funny. I text the wrong people sometimes....it happens. I'm sure she'll understand.
 
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MelinCali,525830 wrote :

... you woker her up.
Not sure where you’re going with this …
 
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D_Lion,525798 wrote :

Is okay to call if you can be funny (whether she answers the phone or not.)


Other choice is to ignore it. If she pipes up, say “oh yeah, I confuse you with my brother … care to remind me of the difference between men and women?”
i vote for this response.
 
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If she has caller ID and most people do she is going to be able to see that it was you who called. I would apologize to her as I think people who hang up without identifying themselves are rude. Good Luck
 
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Hurrmark, the text message will read: "oops! Thought I wasdialingmy brother ... sorry"


I like texting ... it's fun! Go at it HurrMark
 
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angelofmerci,525885 wrote :

If she has caller ID and most people do she is going to be able to see that it was you who called. I would apologize to her as I think people who hang up without identifying themselves are rude. Good Luck
That's the problem. She let me know multiple times that one of her biggest turnoffs is rude people, and that's what I was. Now I am really worried about it.
 
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