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What exactly do you mean by "Asian" men? That is a pretty big stereotype since Asia includes a multitude of different countries from the Middle East to the Indian Subcontinent to South Asia to the Far East. Please clarify!
- April 3rd, 2009, 08:57 am
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Ingytravel wrote :


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I'd say the reason is that white women simply aren't attracted to asian guys...of course this is a generalization but I'm confident it's true. As a lot of people blame the media for guys wanting some supermodel hottie that's on the front of some magazine, I think the media can also be blamed in this situation. Asian guys simply aren't portrayed as sexy and desired etc by the media. We're all either geeky nerds or martial arts experts. haha


Well...here is one woman who is very attracted to Asian men..In EH....One is Korean/American and the other is Chinese/Amercian...one manis long distance..and we are at phone call/emails...and the other man I am about to see next weekend for our first date


Ah yes, but are they "good Christians"?? (I'm taking for granted that they MUST BE in order for you to even consider them? )
- April 3rd, 2009, 12:28 pm
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notamaninpower wrote :

Ingytravel wrote :


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I'd say the reason is that white women simply aren't attracted to asian guys...of course this is a generalization but I'm confident it's true. As a lot of people blame the media for guys wanting some supermodel hottie that's on the front of some magazine, I think the media can also be blamed in this situation. Asian guys simply aren't portrayed as sexy and desired etc by the media. We're all either geeky nerds or martial arts experts. haha


Well...here is one woman who is very attracted to Asian men..In EH....One is Korean/American and the other is Chinese/Amercian...one manis long distance..and we are at phone call/emails...and the other man I am about to see next weekend for our first date


Ah yes, but are they "good Christians"?? (I'm taking for granted that they MUST BE in order for you to even consider them? )
lol notaman. you're right about that one.
- April 3rd, 2009, 12:44 pm
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geez guys...when did this become the bashing my Christianity thread..if your upset about something from another thread...then you can feel free to PM me...but I haven't "flamed" you on here...I may disagree on a particular issue that's discussed on a thread...and I have always respected someone's right to their opinion and ask this in return....but as I was posting in reference to the OP and Chillin's post on this issue...I don't see what point you are trying to make..


And just to be clear...I have never said the word's "Good Christian"...and if I did somewhere...than please show me, and I will change it...because all I think I have ever said was I am looking for a strong Christian man...as in someone who is grounded in their faith...I did not grow up a Christian...so have never judged another human being about anything..in real life..or on here..
- April 3rd, 2009, 01:01 pm
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Notaman and Golfing, I'm going to politely suggest that you both read the Community Guidelines again, particularly the part about not acting like a jerk.


Disagreeing is one thing. Attacking people is another. (And yes, I've done it as well, but that's something else you can take up with me via PM if you choose to.)


Leave it off the threads, please.


- April 3rd, 2009, 01:11 pm
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :

Notaman and Golfing, I'm going to politely suggest that you both read the Community Guidelines again....(snipped)
What she said.


If this thread gets ugly it will go by the wayside, as did the other one.


Thanks in advance for your cooperation.


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- April 3rd, 2009, 01:18 pm
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Why are all the Asian threads going south? Uh oh, I feel some ideas coming on for the politically incorrect thread. No I can't...........must listen to the little white robed guy on my right shoulder and not the other one!
- April 3rd, 2009, 01:21 pm
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Walter - Any thread where the discussion has devolved into personal insults or attacks or where members are clearly violating the site guidelines is one that has "gone south." It does not matter what the subject matter is and, if you look at other threads that have been closed, you'll see that the topics of those threads have in fact varied a lot.


It has absolutely nothing to do with "political correctness."
- April 3rd, 2009, 01:29 pm
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Understood neardc, I was just off handedly remarking on how they just shut down the other thread regarding asian women and now they're having problems with the asian men thread. Of course it's completely unrelated to asians but just one of those things that pop up as a coincidence where you could see the slight humor in it. Maybe it's just me. I've been too focused on all the humor today.


It did look as though it was a decent thread with good conversation and then all of a sudden someone decided to blow it up. Sad, but I guess it does happen on all different kinds of threads.
- April 3rd, 2009, 01:33 pm
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