ilikeblue01 is offline ilikeblue01 Post #1  March 3,2009, 10:12am
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So Ive talked to this guy a couple times on the phone.My cousin knows him and told him about me.He told me I could call him anytime.He travels alot for his job so its hard to get a hold of him.He called me and asked me to dinner, we went saturday.Im usually very shy but I felt very comfortable with him.Everything was going pretty good.During dinner it got really quiet and he just looked into my eyes,I'd look back and he just kept looking.The way he look at me made me nervous..It felt like a long time.What do you think it means?He dropped me off home, hugged me and told it was really nice meeting me and to tell my cousin he said hi.He hasn't called yet,should I call him or just wait?Or send him a text?Or just forget talking to him again?
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #2  March 3,2009, 11:39am
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The looking you in the eyes things would show he was interested. Since I wasn't there I don't know how you ended the date so it could be that he read somehing negative from you. It has only been three days so he may be going by the three day rule. However, you can certainly e-mail or call him and thank him and express that you would like to see him again.
 
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He was probably undressing you with his eyes.


I'd send him a text to say thanks for dinner and that you had a good time, just to show him you have some interest. After that, the ball is in his court. You'll know if he's interested if he calls back for a second date.
 
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If you are shy, he might have gotten the "she is not into me" vibe. E-mail him or text him just to say thanks for dinner and that you had a great time and show some interest in him. If he responds, you'll know he is interested and if not, oh well. Just keep the busy with travel in mind in terms of timing of his response. He may well be genuinely busy and unable to respond quickly.
 
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