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missalmost is offline missalmost Post #1  March 2,2009, 6:48pm
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Does anyone have a clue as to what this could possibly mean? A guy had this in his must haves, and I am at a loss. I can't ask him, because we aren't at OC. Anyone have any ideas?
 
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He sounds creepy already. Forget OC. Flush.
 
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I think it means different things to different people, and the only person who can really answer that is him. I often used the second set of questions to ask about anything that was unclear or that I was a bit worried about in the earlier commnication stages.


It could be anything from wanting a virgin to not wanting S&M to not wanting 3-ways to not being into some really bizarre kink (and there are some strange ones I've heard of).... he may have encounterd something in the past that he just doesn't want. Or he may only want one position.... only one way to find out.
 
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Go forward and ask him later, in OC.


Or, skip it and bring it up after a couple of dates.


Making assumptions leads o error. If he is otherwise good, I wouldn’t read too much into any of the “must haves.”


It could mean anything from he is comfortable with only a single position, to he draws the line at things that are more extreme than you’d accept anyway.
 
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peg099,513145 wrote :

(and there are some strange ones I've heard of)....
That’s what they all say …
 
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ask eH lol they put it in the MH's NOW if I was to guess, means missionary style
 
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yeah I have to agree with glassonlyhalffull_fillit. How old is he? that should give you the answer.
 
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peg099 is offline peg099 Post #8  March 2,2009, 7:27pm
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D_Lion,513148 wrote :

peg099,513145 wrote :


(and there are some strange ones I've heard of)....


That’s what they all say …
Read Savage Love if you don't believe me.
 
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rolmao!!! I agree with the previous posters...except for D Lion...ignore him.
 
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missalmost is offline missalmost Post #10  March 2,2009, 7:37pm
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peg099,513145 wrote :

I think it means different things to different people, and the only person who can really answer that is him. I often used the second set of questions to ask about anything that was unclear or that I was a bit worried about in the earlier commnication stages.


It could be anything from wanting a virgin to not wanting S&M to not wanting 3-ways to not being into some really bizarre kink (and there are some strange ones I've heard of).... he may have encounterd something in the past that he just doesn't want. Or he may only want one position.... only one way to find out.
I know I will just have to ask him, and hope for the best. As you said, he is the only one that can answer what this means to him. If he is looking for a virgin (he's 39).....I think it might be a long wait
 
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