The Top Kissing Complaints

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Want to know what the top kissing turn offs are? We have a list of what you shouldn't do when you pucker up.
 
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The very first thing you shouldn't do is hesitate! A woman likes a confident man and when it comes down to that moment, Please don't make it SLOPPY !!!!
 
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Go for it!Cause her to meltdown so she has to scrape her hoses off afterwards.
 
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I'm in the minority, here, I know--but I'd really prefer no tongues be involved while kissing about 85% of the time.
 
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DogparkAesthete,474294 wrote :

I'm in the minority, here, I know--but I'd really prefer no tongues be involved while kissing about 85% of the time.
I'm in your minority box too. I love a great kiss that doesn't have tonsil hockey involved. To me, the tongue is as generic as red roses...anyone can do it. But a great passionate kiss that is unrestraint restraint (I know it won't make sense to most) is just a swooning knee buckling experience.
 
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I think it depends how passionate the kiss is. I always like a bit of tongue, soflty and gentlywhile kissing me with passion
 
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A bit of tongue is fine, but ALL tongue...yuck. I couldn't keep up with the guy, and I was covered in slobber after (but I did muster enough restraint not to wipe my mouth dry while he was still there).


I have to agree with the passionate, knee-buckling kind of kiss as being the best. ^-^
 
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Menarae is offline Menarae Post #8  February 8,2009, 7:06pm
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Ooh, I have to add this, too, even though it's before the actual kiss: asking if it's okay. The first time is fine, even cute, but every time, especially after we just kissed, is annoying.
 
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outlaw1 is offline outlaw1 Post #9  February 8,2009, 7:31pm

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And let the bashing er kiss and tell begin! Some women have a dead kiss...no passion. My friend L is like that. Well uhm...I met L online in 2001. We became friends after the first date. Over the years she helped me and I helped her (she was thin when I met her but went back to her old ways and suffers from a big weight problem.)


She used to cry on the phone at night and I'd cheer her up. Other times I'd just hold her and hug her for hours. No sex. I remember the last time we kissed...dead air.


I think when two people connect, they have electric sparks. As long as the guy is over his wet kissing phase, she can always train him. Or vice versa, though I have to say most of the women I've kissed over the years were good. There are a lot of ways to kiss. As some have mentioned here, the tongue doesn't always have to be inserted.


Rather playing, teasing, licking, biting (lower lip & chin tastes good) works. Main thing is not to rush (unless you have to!) and have fun. But experiment; a woman's body is one nerve...be gentle until she begs you for more. Then tease her...build her up...kiss her like you are creating a great piece of art.


Then stop kissing...back off slightly and admire her. If she's not ripping out your hair or pulling your ears off or better yet grabbing your butt, you might have to adjust...or she might be shy. Hmm. Gosh I miss this-kissing is an art form. The goal is to drive her insane with pleasure. Don't just keep mouthing her...kiss her shoulders, arms, forehead, anywhere. Change up...and have fun.


People who click don't have to worry much; their electricity draws them...like a moth to a fire! I've been lucky to have been "trained" when I wasyoung. Peace and booyah!
 
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Krikey, I just read the article-it's written for beginners but a good article. Covers the basics. My ex-wife used to STARE at me when she kissed. Totally freaky bats and Transylanvia stuff...don't do that!
 
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