And let the bashing er kiss and tell begin! Some women have a dead kiss...no passion. My friend L is like that. Well uhm...I met L online in 2001. We became friends after the first date. Over the years she helped me and I helped her (she was thin when I met her but went back to her old ways and suffers from a big weight problem.)
She used to cry on the phone at night and I'd cheer her up. Other times I'd just hold her and hug her for hours. No sex. I remember the last time we kissed...dead air.
I think when two people connect, they have electric sparks. As long as the guy is over his wet kissing phase, she can always train him. Or vice versa, though I have to say most of the women I've kissed over the years were good. There are a lot of ways to kiss. As some have mentioned here, the tongue doesn't always have to be inserted.
Rather playing, teasing, licking, biting (lower lip & chin tastes good) works. Main thing is not to rush (unless you have to!) and have fun. But experiment; a woman's body is one nerve...be gentle until she begs you for more. Then tease her...build her up...kiss her like you are creating a great piece of art.
Then stop kissing...back off slightly and admire her. If she's not ripping out your hair or pulling your ears off or better yet grabbing your butt, you might have to adjust...or she might be shy. Hmm. Gosh I miss this-kissing is an art form. The goal is to drive her insane with pleasure. Don't just keep mouthing her...kiss her shoulders, arms, forehead, anywhere. Change up...and have fun.
People who click don't have to worry much; their electricity draws them...like a moth to a fire! I've been lucky to have been "trained" when I wasyoung. Peace and booyah!
OHHH MY WORD! THE BEST KISSI EVER HAD WAS FROM SOME ITALION BROTHERS I DATED!!(NOT AT THE SAME TIME!!) THEY BOTH MIXED REGULAR KISSING WITH ITALIN KISSING---I NEVER HAD A KISS KNOCK ME FLAT & SET ME ON FIRE AT THE SAME TIME! I HAVE HAD MANY KISSES AND ALOT WERE MELTING KINDS OF KISSES. I DATED SOME GREAT GUYS! BUT SINCE THEN NO ONE HAS EVER KISSED ME LIKE THAT---WHAT A PITY!! BUT SOME GREAT MEMORIES!!!!!!
I just broke up with a man because he was by far the worst kisser I have ever been with-- man -- i felt like I was drowning and it felt like he was an anxious puberty stricken 12 year old (he's 50) --now of course i did not tell him that was why cause there were several other major tacky moves ( brought me to his office to "make out' on the third date)
Also one dated a guy who kissed like a bird -- his tongue would dart in and out-- well I 'll be darned but the guy had birds for pets--- how telling
OHHH MY WORD! THE BEST KISSI EVER HAD WAS FROM SOME ITALION BROTHERS I DATED!!(NOT AT THE SAME TIME!!) THEY BOTH MIXED REGULAR KISSING WITH ITALIN KISSING---I NEVER HAD A KISS KNOCK ME FLAT & SET ME ON FIRE AT THE SAME TIME! I HAVE HAD MANY KISSES AND ALOT WERE MELTING KINDS OF KISSES. I DATED SOME GREAT GUYS! BUT SINCE THEN NO ONE HAS EVER KISSED ME LIKE THAT---WHAT A PITY!! BUT SOME GREAT MEMORIES!!!!!!
The hoover-vac-suck-my-soul kiss is the worst. Painful and not so pleasurable. And then the tight-lip-I-still-have-a-wall-don't-know-how-i-feelkiss...boring. Or the porno-sleezy-tounge kiss is one of the ickiest.
Kiss me to tell me you like/love/desire me not because it's polite or because you haven't had any in a while.
Dry Kisses. A sloppy kiss is bad, but a dry, emotionless, "press" on the lips can be a real turnoff. Some people don't like kissing, and they show it by not putting anything into to it at all. Both are bad extremes...sloppy vs. dry.
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